"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is always going to be checked out and hit on by other men as long as she has a youthful looking appearance (not middle aged I mean) is NOT obese or is in possession of a less than average face.

Basically, it does not take much for a woman to be hit on.

I am posting this because I hear alot of people on this forum complain or get upset when other men checkout or hit on their girlfriend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Those guys are just having their insecurities tested. Their egos are so fragile that they aren't able to recognize that they have good taste and that they were able to secure such a commodity. Unbeknownst to them, that insecurity will be a catalyst in loosing that commodity.
 

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Milfhunter77 said:
is always going to be checked out and hit on by other men as long as she has a youthful looking appearance (not middle aged I mean) is NOT obese or is in possession of a less than average face.

Basically, it does not take much for a woman to be hit on.

I am posting this because I hear alot of people on this forum complain or get upset when other men checkout or hit on their girlfriend.
women get hit on???

No sh!t...
 

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I got a kick out of watching some guy hit on my wife in a department store once. I was standing some distance away looking at something else, so he didn't notice me. I just watched him do his routine without interrupting them.

I think its cool to have things that other people want, but can't have because you have it. There wasn't a doubt in my mind that she was going to reject him.
 

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I get a kick out my girlfriend getting checked out.

She likes to hear about all the girls hitting on me as well.

It's like a fun game that we have :yes: .

The only one that she got upset with was when my swing partner decided to kiss me in front of her. She almost flipped out and I had to drag her out of the room before she killed him.

comic_relief

EDIT: Alright, my bad everyone :p I was yelling at a friend for bringing a drink up to my room while i was typing this. and the quote should be
The only one that she got upset with was when my swing partner decided to kiss me in front of her. She almost flipped out and I had to drag her out of the room before she killed her.
I'm going to leave this alone in the original post because the mistake made me laugh

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only one that she got upset with was when my swing partner decided to kiss me in front of her. She almost flipped out and I had to drag her out of the room before she killed him.

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Um, dude...
 

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comic_relief said:
I get a kick out my girlfriend getting checked out.

She likes to hear about all the girls hitting on me as well.

It's like a fun game that we have :yes: .
See how much difference it makes when the couple is secure with one another...
comic_relief said:
The only one that she got upset with was when my swing partner decided to kiss me in front of her. She almost flipped out and I had to drag her out of the room before she killed him.

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Well, what your partner did could be considered rude and out of bounds. Ummm, btw; your swing partner is a guy??? :confused: Maybe that's why your girl got so upset... :p
 

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There wasn't a doubt in my mind that she was going to reject him.

Why, because you were standing some distance away looking at something else? -- No offence, but sometimes you gotta' wonder what might happen if you were not there.

I was always put off when my best friends wife would make advances towards me. And my roomates girlfriend. And, as sick as it sounds... my sister-in-law.

Trust is a foolish thing to place in anyone, I've come to learn.


The only one that she got upset with was when my swing partner decided to kiss me in front of her. She almost flipped out and I had to drag her out of the room before she killed him.
Well, Comic... if I were her and I saw you kissing some guy I'd be pissed off, too!

Swingers... :p
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
See how much difference it makes when the couple is secure with one another...
A mature relationship is so much more fun than a relationship with a whiny prissy b!tch like my ex-girlfriend who was very insecure about herself.

Well, what your partner did could be considered rude and out of bounds. Ummm, btw; your swing partner is a guy??? :confused: Maybe that's why your girl got so upset... :p[/QUOTE]
check edit. Yeah, everyone that was there got pissed off at **HER**

refer to edit on previous post

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Mahon,

Such an insecure mindset to hold! Women aren't possessions!

My girlfriend is incredibly hot (to me at least) and I bet guys check her out. I know I do! But she is WITH ME for a reason. If one day she decides not to be well....that's her choice and I'm not going to live in fear of that day. I can go out and meet another girl any time I want.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ever onward said:
Mahon,

Such an insecure mindset to hold! Women aren't possessions!

My girlfriend is incredibly hot (to me at least) and I bet guys check her out. I know I do! But she is WITH ME for a reason. If one day she decides not to be well....that's her choice and I'm not going to live in fear of that day. I can go out and meet another girl any time I want.
What do you mean mahon? He didn't even post on this thread.

But since you did bring up Mahon, yes he does and I would really love to meet up with him though. When I go up to Jersey again.

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comic_relief said:
I get a kick out my girlfriend getting checked out.

She likes to hear about all the girls hitting on me as well.

It's like a fun game that we have :yes: .

The only one that she got upset with was when my swing partner decided to kiss me in front of her. She almost flipped out and I had to drag her out of the room before she killed him.

comic_relief

EDIT: Alright, my bad everyone :p I was yelling at a friend for bringing a drink up to my room while i was typing this. and the quote should be

I'm going to leave this alone in the original post because the mistake made me laugh

comic_relief
no offense...but do you mean that he-she? theyre probably not checking her out but just wondering if shes really a he! :woo:
 

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What do you mean mahon? He didn't even post on this thread
I was under the impression that Milfhunter = Mahon. That's what Milfhunter claimed on another post!

Ah crap, someone should ban em both
 

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Ken785 said:
no offense...but do you mean that he-she? theyre probably not checking her out but just wondering if shes really a he! :woo:
yep, my friend same one. she definitely is a SHE and I should know. :nono:

btw that is the same finger I used when I fingered her last night :p

As to everonward, oh. Must have missed that post.

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comic_relief said:
..refer to edit on previous post..
Too late!!! Both Virtual Mind and I have you quoted in our posts... :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Too late!!! Both Virtual Mind and I have you quoted in our posts... :crackup:
I know, I left it the same :cheer:

I was like wtf then I started to crack up about it.

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comic_relief said:
As to everonward, oh. Must have missed that post.

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Milfhunter77 said:
This is MAHON83050:


Today, I sent SHOP UNTIL I DIE a private message regarding one my posts.
I wanted him and Deus to see a pic from myspace and sent them my MYSPACE username and password (NOT DJDF) just in case they could not access the link to the pic. I trusted they wouldn't be immature fools with the username and password (I was going to change the password as soon as they saw the pic)


I forgot that my myspace password and DJDF password were the same and these two jackoffs (whom I am convinced are lovers) guessed and guessed right that my password to DJDF was the same for myspace.

They have made posts incorrectly under my name and the worst part is:

They changed the e-mail on it, so I don't have access to my old account to rechange the password.

I AM COMPLETELY LOCKED OUT OF MY PROFILE!!

These two have violated the integrity and maturity of this website.

BAN THESE FOOLS!!
:rolleyes:
 

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Ever onward said:
I was under the impression that Milfhunter = Mahon. That's what Milfhunter claimed on another post!

Ah crap, someone should ban em both
Mifhunter is MAHON80305 or whatever his name is...he got his old account jacked!
 

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another proud moment for Mahon, wouldn't you guys say :crazy:

always manages to keep this site interesting.

lets get back to the original meaning of this post.

comic_relief
 

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Why, because you were standing some distance away looking at something else? -- No offence, but sometimes you gotta' wonder what might happen if you were not there.
I know my wife wouldn't cheat on me. Besides the fact that she's content in all areas of her life with me, it'd be breaking her genuine value system. Some things you just know.

Trust is a foolish thing to place in anyone, I've come to learn.
I'm not a big fan of the word "trust" because of its loose association with blind faith. My assessment of her in this area is that she is (extremely) highly unlikely to cheat on me as things are today. I assess and make judgments based on assessments; not just simply "trust". Mindless is not my style.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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