Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ken785 said:Mifhunter is MAHON80305 or whatever his name is...he got his old account jacked!
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135694mahon83050 said:I can't believe you haven't been banned yet! Yeah, I posted this sometime last week, but nobody responded so I thought I would try to spark up some discussion by starting it in a new thread.
Seriously, who would believe that I would actually tell someone my password? This is probably Deus or Shop trying to get me banned.
Get a life you troll!!
Good idea.comic_relief said:lets get back to the original meaning of this post.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ever onward said:Like I alluded to earlier, if you have that fear of loss with your wife/girlfriend ect. You've already doomed yourself to lose her.
I am taking a guess that these are the two statement that you are talking about.Ever onward said:And comic_relief, I wasn't addressing my point to you. I was just making that statement in general.
Oh, and I guess you're going to blame his antics on me! :woo:Ever onward said:
No I blame his antics on him.:kick:Francisco d'Anconia said:Oh, and I guess you're going to blame his antics on me! :woo:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
or he has a multiple personality disorder online. Now thats some crazy sh!t :trouble: :crazy:Francisco d'Anconia said:Oh, and I guess you're going to blame his antics on me! :woo:
Thats why I only date ugly chicks. LOLMilfhunter77 said:is always going to be checked out and hit on by other men as long as she has a youthful looking appearance (not middle aged I mean) is NOT obese or is in possession of a less than average face.
Basically, it does not take much for a woman to be hit on.
I am posting this because I hear alot of people on this forum complain or get upset when other men checkout or hit on their girlfriend.
azanon said:I assess and make judgments based on assessments; not just simply "trust".