Your "Friend Zone", experienced guys topic

[exile663dfx]

This is for the experienced.

So I met this HB8.5 (.5 for being really smart) at a restaurant she was/is a waitress. Got her number and initiated texting (texting because I want to). We started talking and got to know eachother really well. She wanted to date really bad but I kept putting it off for "some odd reason", so it seems like I befriended her rather than fvcked her, and i'm ok with that I got several plates to spin, so i'm asking you experienced guys because I have never actually put a girl in my friend zone that I was sexually attracted to before its either I banged her or NEXTed.

Is this normal or should I have added on a plate even thought It doesnt seem like I was into it all.

 

[Gray The Prince]

To be honest with you, I didn't even know guys had friend zones....

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I've friendzone'd a few girls, not cause I'm not sexually attracted to them though. They just have wayyyy too much baggage to date.

One of these girls is an HB9. Really sweet girl that I love to hangout with. But she dated a good friend of mine for about 4 or 5 years (probably still fvcks him).. It seemed like she wanted to hook up for a bit last fall, but I kept just playing oblivious to it all. She's not the type of girl you can just do the FWB thing with either.

Plus the implications of dating her after my friend did would be too much to deal with and not worth throwing away 2 good friendships over. I don't want to put myself in a rebound situation either (if it's not going to be a FWB situation).

Sometimes dating a girl just isn't worth it because of other stuff in your social life that could possibly go haywire. That might sound kind of AFC, but I don't really care. I'm not really concerned with getting my count up with girls I've banged. I'm more concerned with living a fun and prosperous life!

 

[exile663dfx]

I've friendzone'd a few girls, not cause I'm not sexually attracted to them though. They just have wayyyy too much baggage to date.

One of these girls is an HB9. Really sweet girl that I love to hangout with. But she dated a good friend of mine for about 4 or 5 years (probably still fvcks him).. It seemed like she wanted to hook up for a bit last fall, but I kept just playing oblivious to it all. She's not the type of girl you can just do the FWB thing with either.

Plus the implications of dating her after my friend did would be too much to deal with and not worth throwing away 2 good friendships over. I don't want to put myself in a rebound situation either (if it's not going to be a FWB situation).

Sometimes dating a girl just isn't worth it because of other stuff in your social life that could possibly go haywire. That might sound kind of AFC, but I don't really care. I'm not really concerned with getting my count up with girls I've banged. I'm more concerned with living a fun and prosperous life!

I like this Alex, my life is filled with a bunch of unusual, good and bad events. So after I suffered this heart attack my life changed even more for the better,and I feel "sub-consciously" this girl felt like a friend and nothing more to me. Unusual right? Strange case of how just far I/my self has become further than being with this HB8.5. She literally begs for a date now, and i'm sorry, shes just a friend in my eyes.