Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Your first time hittin the clubs

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I have jus turned 18 and am now able to hit the clubs.

I am just wondering how it went for all you out there when you first went into town and went clubbing.

Any tips or advice

One thing im gonna feel worried about is i am young looking so will have to bring my passport (i got no other ID but am gettin some)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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1. dont take a passport i lost mine its a b.itch
2. go on DJ bible, clubs
 

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Your from Yorkshire? Awesome!

Best Leeds club for newbies to hit up is probably HALO. I've found the women there are less *****y then in some of the more popular clubs.

Discotheque is awesome on a Friday and Tuesday - has a good hip hop room. Creation is probably the main club - but it just seems a bit meh to me.
 

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Originally posted by Q-Unit
Your from Yorkshire? Awesome!

Best Leeds club for newbies to hit up is probably HALO. I've found the women there are less *****y then in some of the more popular clubs.

Discotheque is awesome on a Friday and Tuesday - has a good hip hop room. Creation is probably the main club - but it just seems a bit meh to me.
Cheers Q.

Some of ma mateshave been to creation and i will probs go next time.

I will try out the others when im there, but most of the time i will be goin out in Bradford as thats wrer im from.

Where u from btw ?

Anyone else got any advice?
 

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Oceana... Monday


Tequila @ Warehouse, Thursday...


Both in Leeds... student nights


If you're wantin somethin a bit older do Greek St...


Clubbin tips.... learn how to dance... look suave and your jobs much easier too... you know like girls stoppin you, and doing the work for you... but yea, dancing's a big one, and don't get too drunk because game goes way out the window.. in reality the more sober you are the sharper your game is, only question is do you possess the natural confidence to do it... most people seem to need like 4 or 5 drinks before they've got any confidence in em
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I went for the first time and it was pretty good. I didnt hook up with any lasses but i had a great time so i am not too bothered.

The only downer was that when me n ma mates tried to run from the taxi without paying, i got caught again. Sh!t.

On the whole not too bad.

(and yes we are cheap :D )
 

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what happened to you when you got caught?

I did it once when I was 15, I always wondered what woulda happened if he caught us.
 

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I'm not a club guy. Although I love sports bars, and lounges. The women are just as hot, and you can actually run game better IMO.

If you look like you cause trouble, you don't get in. Crowds are more mature, more personal space for privacy, no blasting music, etc.
 

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Originally posted by Eccentric
I'm not a club guy. Although I love sports bars, and lounges. The women are just as hot, and you can actually run game better IMO.

If you look like you cause trouble, you don't get in. Crowds are more mature, more personal space for privacy, no blasting music, etc.
I agree with this. In addition, the patrons who frequent these kinds of places tend to be less hostile and defensive. I suspect that's because in nightclubs, girls expect any guy who doesn't have a date to try and hit on them. In sports bars, lounges and pubs you tend to get the benefit of the doubt more often.
 

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Suggestions. Have fun and don't be bored at the clubs. I see some ppl in the club bored and I wonder why they bother coming out. Have fun is very important.

Don't care about what other think of your dancing skills or your cloth or actions. You are never going to see them again after tonite and they are insignificant and cant help you have fun therefore you dont care what they do or think.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here are my personal tips.

1. Go there to have fun and not with the mentality to pick up chicks.
2. rule #1
3. Have a drink or two before going to get you in the partying mood and to loosen you up also to save money.
4. Dress and look your best, wear nice cologne around your ears and wrist because when you talk to females you will most likely whisper in their ears, and you will use some Kino by leaning into them trying to hear them.
5.Learn to dance and have a good time, analyze the area and use some nice eye contact with the females that are checking you out. On a good good song, go up to them and start dancing with them, but it must be on a good song were they are feeling the moment.
6. Tip the bartender good on your first drink so he/she remembers you and will give you faster service, also hold up your money in the air sorta to let them know.
7. Wear good shoes but not your best looking shoes because they will get f*ck up. IF its a good club filled with people, they will step on your shoes and spill drinks all over them. I went to a club with some nice white air force onces shoes and they came out multi colored all overed them.
8. You are the prize, dance like there is no one watching.
9.Location location location. Move around in the area and dont stay in 1 spot. Get close to the bar, or the bathroom. Move around in the dancefloor, mingle with the crowd
10.rule #1
 
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