"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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your first glimpse of greatness

jtrain 289

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how many girls rejected you guys before you finally felt that you had game or that you were finally a dj? Ive gotten rejected by over 200 girls i feel like ive gotten better but i still havent even h/u yet .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonafide

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Damn I wish I had your balls (no homo)...200 rejections? and still emotionally fit? im impressed...30 rejections and i would feel like a failure, much props to you my man, keep at it... ive never been rejected but I dont approach alot thats why... I just game girls that I have classes with and stuff like that
 

jeffthechef

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it's not how many girls you get or get rejected byt hat makes you a dj...
it's the attitude...ALPHA is what you want to be...it doesn't guarantee girls htough

INSANE...is doing something repeatedly expectin different results...
of course every girl is different..but after 200 girls..there must be something you're doing wrong

i think you think being a dj is getting girls...wrong..
You must become a dj...in order to get girls

read the dj bible...
 
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