"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your first approach

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How was the first approach you made when you decided to become a true DJ?

Were you nervous? Did you get rejected? Or did you get her number?:woo:

I've never done a cold approach in my life, im not ugly or anything but I've just always and ALWAYS kept finding excuses. Yeah, I know, I'm pathetic. But when I see a hottie, I'm just paralysed, I feel nervous, my throat is sour, I'm sweating like a dog. So I find an excuse and decide to do nothing.

This will all change. It's over.

The only problem I have is how to initiate the first contact with the hottie. How to get the conversation started. I know the techniques (ie: say something about what she wears, where she bought that, or about something you noticed going on around, etc.). But as I said, I will work on that and approach AT LEAST 100 women this summer (I'm finishing school in 2weeks). I've been reading articles on this website for way too long, I've been thinking way too much.

It's over. Next time I see a HB, I will approach her. No matter how I feel about it, I have to do it.

Plan for this summer: Getting a cellphone, and sarging everywhere, I mean EVERYWHERE: park, downtown, movies, mall...everywhere.

I've never been a nice guy, I could have pimp'd any girl at my school, but they were just not my type or on my level in terms of look :whistle: or they always had a bf who was my friend:kick: (AM I TYPING SOME EXCUSES AGAIN!?!). I've got the confidence, the charisma, the ****yness. And I've been using some tips on the girls in my school and it works.

I'm all pumped! I will approach any fine LADIES now! and I'm not BULLSH+ITTING!
NO MORE excuses. NO MORE!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WC2

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Good to hear bro-

First approach I made as a DJ wasn't even me intending to be a DJ. In fact, I didn't even know what a DJ was when I made it. One night in the club I decided to be that confident guy who would try to strike up conversation with a supermodel. Approached plenty of girls that night, got 2 back to my place and the rest was history.

From that point on I had a good feeling of how girls really think. This site helps me polish up, but 90% of your results comes from your experience.
 

MARVEL IQ

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Good to hear. The one advice i have is learn all the types of openers there are. This is just cause situational opener can be very weak at times and it sometimes places immediately under the category of "every other guy".

So just do some research on all the types of openers, it's good to have variety.

Love,
Marvel IQ
 

Alittude

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Man good to hear Im right there with ya. I haven't done an actualy proper cold approach in my eyes. I have approached girls and gotten there number but I don't count them as actual cold approaches and my holdiays are soon so I'm gonna do it with you man.
 
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