"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your favourite Retro PUA trick - that still works

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Lot of heavy topics here lately.

Thought it mite b fun to re-visit some of the classics.

When the world was young and we'd all just read the game there were a bunch of routines that worked - I'll supply a couple of examples later.

The world moved on to inner game, the alpha lifestyle etc. But I bet all of you have simple tricks u found that worked and you kept in your toolbox just as a sideline to your main game or a default move. I'm with DD on this one - for the common situations u should have one default move - makes it impossible to freeze up.

A couple of mine to kick it off (cheerfully stolen of course). Disclaimer - I've just come out of 10 years of LTRs so no idea if these still work - let me know :)

The palmistry read - chit chatting to some hired gun and then stare at her hand and say interesting. You can go straight into the palmistry spiel or just walk off and stare at her hand again.

Follow-up is u can keep claiming u know all this stuff or later on pay her out for believing your BS This was a bit time consuming but very effective. Given how many chicks are still dialing astrology lines I'd b amazed if this still didn't work.

The waitress drop - polite chit chat, bit of eye flirting, hand her piece of paper with your name/number with cute instruction to call u, say - hey I think u dropped this and walk out. Bit AFC and not very effective - I had one in 20 strike rate but everyone still eats out a lot. It was kind of one of my default moves when I didn't have much game. But then discovered japanese waitresses - WOW - they all work hard - don't know many ppl and many are in a new country which means they're the adventurous ones. 1 in 5 strike rate and I'm guessing with all the asian eateries these days this would still be gold for us asian lady devotees.

C'mon guys - kick in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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Never used these kind of tricks but talking about retro strategies the whole "why dont you buy me a drink" countertactics are gold.
 

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I've been out doing night game more often for the first time in three years and the wings that come out invariably resort to the "spin the girl around" mystery dance move. Its retro as hell but it still seems to work. Palm reading too.. come to think of it. Retro might be coming back in style a bit?
 

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Give a girl a nickname, only refer to her by that name. My wife's current nickname is RETARD.

When I first meet a woman I ask what year she was born in, then I label her based on the Chinese calender. Women love personal mysticism, infact they love it so much they would probably eat it out of an angry dog's assh0le. Then just call her by her 'animal' name.. the best times are when they are the pig or the dog.
 

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Hmm I can little piggie or my little pony if she's a horse mite work with a chinese girl but surely its a bit risky with a euro chick? Not that that's a problem for me ;-)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've always said, don't be afraid of compliments. They get a bad reputation, because they don't work to build attraction when it does not exist already. But when the girl is already attracted to you, then they are very effective tools. All women have sh!tty self-esteem; they need it built up, but only by men they value.
 

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Easy question.

ubercat said:
Lot of heavy topics here lately.

Thought it mite b fun to re-visit some of the classics.

When the world was young and we'd all just read the game there were a bunch of routines that worked - I'll supply a couple of examples later.

The world moved on to inner game, the alpha lifestyle etc. But I bet all of you have simple tricks u found that worked and you kept in your toolbox just as a sideline to your main game or a default move. I'm with DD on this one - for the common situations u should have one default move - makes it impossible to freeze up.

A couple of mine to kick it off (cheerfully stolen of course). Disclaimer - I've just come out of 10 years of LTRs so no idea if these still work - let me know :)

The palmistry read - chit chatting to some hired gun and then stare at her hand and say interesting. You can go straight into the palmistry spiel or just walk off and stare at her hand again.

Follow-up is u can keep claiming u know all this stuff or later on pay her out for believing your BS This was a bit time consuming but very effective. Given how many chicks are still dialing astrology lines I'd b amazed if this still didn't work.

The waitress drop - polite chit chat, bit of eye flirting, hand her piece of paper with your name/number with cute instruction to call u, say - hey I think u dropped this and walk out. Bit AFC and not very effective - I had one in 20 strike rate but everyone still eats out a lot. It was kind of one of my default moves when I didn't have much game. But then discovered japanese waitresses - WOW - they all work hard - don't know many ppl and many are in a new country which means they're the adventurous ones. 1 in 5 strike rate and I'm guessing with all the asian eateries these days this would still be gold for us asian lady devotees.

C'mon guys - kick in.
The Cube has been one of my favs since 2004. I *still* use it somewhat regularly, and I'm *still* amazed at how consistently it gets women eating out of the palm of my hand. They always believe you know some secret about them that nobody else does, and at least personally, I've never had a girl say she already knew what it was (this blows my mind constantly; it's one of the oldest tricks in the book when it comes to "PUA moves" that aren't just natural game / "pure alpha" style). :rock:
 

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Interesting that's an old Style move - very retro. I guess its really a cold read like my palmistry so it definitely should work. Another variation on is to start with a real palm read and then start making more and more absurd stuff up until it becomes obvious your messing with her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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