“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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Neandrothol Supersoldier was great!

I dont like pook because his posts spend more words seducing than they do teaching men to seduce. Reading his (over simplified and incredibly fanciful) posts give you the same warm fuzzy feeling that actually approaching a beautiful, intelligent, fun woman should. He is the ultimate armchair seducer - finding new, intriguing ways to say the few simple principals this site is based on - replacing the despiration most afc's need to make that first cold approach with complacancy. He is too good a writer to be entrusted with the responsibility his name carries around these forums.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pook and Deagleclaw were two posters who pretty consistently provided posts that were both mature and seriously thought inducing. Since those are my favorite kinds of posts, they have always been two of my favorites.

Although Neanderthal Supersoldier and I came to be quite friendly both here and away from the forums, and he had his share of good posts, I'm surprised he has gotten as much mention as he has. He spent more time in flame wars and wreaking havoc in the chat room than posting advice...lol. He was a real stinker, albeit a very likeable stinker. :D
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I love all the members, all 15,206 of em.

*Picks a flower from the ground* He loves me....he loves me not.....he loves me...he loves me not. HE LOVES ME! :p



I think we all need a group hug! :D
 

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i notice my name did not come up
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PuertoRican_Lover, of course, followed by Westcoaster and Water Tiger...

Because they see the truth.

Dietzcoi
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Neandrothol Supersoldier was great!

I dont like pook because his posts spend more words seducing than they do teaching men to seduce. Reading his (over simplified and incredibly fanciful) posts give you the same warm fuzzy feeling that actually approaching a beautiful, intelligent, fun woman should. He is the ultimate armchair seducer - finding new, intriguing ways to say the few simple principals this site is based on - replacing the despiration most afc's need to make that first cold approach with complacancy. He is too good a writer to be entrusted with the responsibility his name carries around these forums.
I agree with you. It is too bad the majority of AFC rather have that quick temporary surge of (inspiration??) than do what is really necessary.

Have you notice that most of the Pook praiser are still on this site (b/c they are still an AFC?) while the people that dismiss Pook are gone (b/c they have become a true Don Juan?) .

My favorite poster is Senor Fingers.
 

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I definitely have to say Penkitten on this one.
 

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check_mate_kid's and aequitas' posts are always pretty interesting to me. lifeforce is quite good too. there are also other members pretty good, but i don't remember the names, sorry.

for what concerns the old big names.... well, stockholder and pook are the first ones, then senor fingerz.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
PuertoRican_Lover, of course, followed by Westcoaster and Water Tiger...

Because they see the truth.

Dietzcoi
Yeah, these 3 are also some of the top posters around. Guys who really have experienced life and see the truth of the situation.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Although Neanderthal Supersoldier and I came to be quite friendly both here and away from the forums, and he had his share of good posts, I'm surprised he has gotten as much mention as he has. He spent more time in flame wars and wreaking havoc in the chat room than posting advice...lol. He was a real stinker, albeit a very likeable stinker. :D
Haha! I should point out that most of the valuable insights I got from him were from discussions away from the forums. When it came to discussion of the actual topics (as rare as that was) he had really good stuff to say.

-PDX
 

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Originally posted by theSpeculator
I agree with you. It is too bad the majority of AFC rather have that quick temporary surge of (inspiration??) than do what is really necessary.

Have you notice that most of the Pook praiser are still on this site (b/c they are still an AFC?) while the people that dismiss Pook are gone (b/c they have become a true Don Juan?) .

My favorite poster is Senor Fingers.
Actually they just get bored and leave. But I guess we all have are opinions even if they're wrong.

I talked to TonytheTigerOI about the idea behind Pook and we came to this conclusion(I think.)

Pook was an author or aspiring author who practiced writing stories on this site. He tended to repeat some of these ideas, but presented in new forms. He was a REALLY good writer and did help many. You can call his writing's fluff or to seduce men online to become his follower. But I know it's helped me and I plan on leaving this site this summer.

The reason most people leave is because they're bored or finally are happy with themselves.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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