"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your Favorite Colors on a Woman

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I thought I'd post an interesting question... What colors do you like on a woman? They can be the color of her clothes, her hair, and her eyes.

I personally like women who wear pink and gray. Actually, I'll take a woman who wears ANY color except black. I'm fvcking sick of seeing black on women.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Clothing:
1. Pink anything
2. Light blue anything
3. White pants

Hair:
I prefer blondes or light brown hair with blonde streaks in it.

Skin tone:
Light tan

Makeup:
Subtle, complimentary to what she's wearing. No black eyeliner. No glitter or 'spray' look with eye shadow all over the place. Red/pink hue. A lot of women are retarded with their makeup, and to me that's an expression of both her artistic sensibilities and her intelligence.
 

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Desdinova said:
I personally like women who wear pink and gray. Actually, I'll take a woman who wears ANY color except black. I'm fvcking sick of seeing black on women.
Hah, funny. I love black and loathe pink.
 

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I don't notice any colors since I always try to undress them with my eyes. If a woman has a good figure and a fashion sense then if I am turned on (without her taking her cloths off) then she did something right.

Hair: I prefer Brunetts with long hair like this chick:
http://www.bayarearidersforum.com/forums/images/threads/000/147/902/2208459-adriana_keller.jpg

Skin tone: olive oil complexion like the one you find in the mediterranean : http://www.corlingerie.com/Images/PE_06_files/Cat_DEF_PAGESnCROP_12.jpg

Face: soft feminine face like this:http://www.myclassiclyrics.com/artist_biographies/natalie_portman_biography.htm

T1ts: Big and round: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Np5eTIKhZ7Q

Ass: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0b3Cm-7f8h0

Now I am ready to build the perfect woman.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hair color, my fave would have to be brunette.

Colors, I like the brown & blue combo on them. It's not just for guys. Like those dresses brown w/blue polka dots. Also, someone not afraid to wear some orange or green, I don't see to much of that.
 

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Brunettes, definitely - not too tan, and faded/washed out/sunbleached blue or similarly faded pink. Definitely no to the big fake tits, no to the full bush or full bald (trimmed neat is fine). Petite but with a few curves. Something along the lines of a Kiera Knightley/Natalie Portman mix. Hair length I don't care about. I thought NP looked pretty hot in V for Vendetta with that shaved head.
 

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I like this thread. :up:

Do you guys really pay attention to colors on a chick?

Or are you recalling memories of chicks who floored you with their appearance, and saying what she happened to be wearing?
 

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iqqi said:
Do you guys really pay attention to colors on a chick?

Or are you recalling memories of chicks who floored you with their appearance, and saying what she happened to be wearing?
The former.

Color schematics are the first thing I notice aside from body profile, which is an almost instantaneous cognition. So many women are totally clued out to it. They have no clue what the hues, tones, and clothes they choose convey about them.

If I'm checking out a female, I'll mentally think up silly assumed attributes for her like 'clown', 'professionally hot', 'ghetto skank', 'club-rat', 'Miss Piggy', 'religious chick', 'gets it', etc based on little other than her color palette.

The worst offenders of color for me are the chicks who would describe themselves as 'artsy', yet look like they just broke into mommy's makeup cabinet for the first time. The best looking ones to me appear as if they've taken the time at some point to study and make considered choices about beauty & sexuality.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hahhahaa, satin blues, emerald, burgundy, SAGE, rust, sunbeached blue, palettes, combos, OMG, you guys are so gay!!! :D

I kid, I kid. I love how much you pay attention, I never woulda thunk it! Honestly, now I know that you men are paying attention to my great style, it makes it all worthwhile! :D

This is fvcking AWESOME. :up:

In honour of your guyses being so damned fashionably aware about COLOR PALETTES, tonight I am going to break out my chartreuse silk dress with gold contrast beading, with a curly roman updo, and subtle make up that brings out the golden flecks in my eyes. Pale, pouty wet lipgloss. And golden sandals heels.

I am going to pay close attention to the men's reactions to see if chartreuse rocks men's boats. What is the vote on chartreuse here?
 

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iqqi said:
Hahhahaa, satin blues, emerald, burgundy, SAGE, rust, sunbeached blue, palettes, combos, OMG, you guys are so gay!!! :D

I kid, I kid. I love how much you pay attention, I never woulda thunk it! Honestly, now I know that you men are paying attention to my great style, it makes it all worthwhile! :D

This is fvcking AWESOME. :up:
I remember many years ago I was out on a date with a woman who asked me to "guess her season." Of course I was like "WTF??!!" I took a gamble and guessed "Autumn." I was right and got laid that night! So if learning what colors or season a woman should wear would help impress a woman that much I said what the hell, I already knew most of the seasons already! :p Plus, it's surprising how often a woman you're seeing will ask you to come into a store's dressing room with her while she changes to ask you opinion if she feels you know what you're talking about.
iqqi said:
...I am going to pay close attention to the men's reactions to see if chartreuse rocks men's boats. What is the vote on chartreuse here?
Well it depends. Are you showing a lot of cleavage?
 

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I am a solid B. :D

Because I am so petite, when I wear a tee shirt I look very "well endowed" in the chest area because it is so fitted, but when I am wearing a summer dress with straps, I look more petite. Not flat, but not busty. Classy.
 

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I don't really pay much attention to what she's wearing. I couldn't care less, really. Well, her trousers have to be tight enough as to not be loose around the arse, so I can tell if she's got a good arse. Otherwise, clothing colours are irrelevant. However, they must not be slutty! They must not be too revealing. They must not be screaming out "objectify me boys, but remember to focus on the tits and arse!"

Regarding hair and make-up, I believe make-up should amplify a girls natural beauty and hair should be long - long enough for it to be able to be easily played with and pulled. Too often I see girls in Britain with make-up that looks like it was sprayed on, with huge contrast between different parts of the face making them look stupid and whorish, and short, masculine type hair cuts with gel. Eugh. The sad thing is that they can actually pull looking like that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I dont mind so much about the colours she's wearing, as long as she's doing her best to dress feminine, that's when she really stands out among the crowd for myself.

Raven haired chicks are always a head turner for me awsell, extra points if she's pale with rosy cheeks..OOooof.... Having said that I realise the general colours of a chick is probably more important than I realised.
 

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Nope. I've been told I look like:

Winona Ryder
Natalie Portman
giselle (that was flattering)

I am very petite barely 5'1/5'2. Near 100 lbs. Brown eyes, pale skin, dark hair. Killer intense eyes that get me in trouble. Nice boobies. Nice booty, I hear. :)

Very feminine dress style. With a little edge. See my adventures with 10 thread for more in depth. OH OOPS WRONG FORUM.
 

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iqqi said:
Nope. I've been told I look like:

Winona Ryder
Natalie Portman
giselle (that was flattering)

I am very petite barely 5'1/5'2. Near 100 lbs. Brown eyes, pale skin, dark hair. Killer intense eyes that get me in trouble. Nice boobies. Nice booty, I hear. :)

Very feminine dress style. With a little edge. See my adventures with 10 thread for more in depth. OH OOPS WRONG FORUM.
What is this? An online dating profile?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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