I met this girl in front of my college campus and we hit it off pretty well. We talked for a while and eventually I found out she is a Jehovah Witness. I am wondering if this will affect my chances of dating her because I dont believe in anything. She is really into me and she gave me her number so I will try to set up a date soon. What are your guys experiences with dating religious girls and is it worth it? Shes an 8 in looks and 9 in personality.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Your experiences dating religious girls?
- Thread starter garfield
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I dated an evangelical Christian virgin. Ended up totally f*cking up her life: she worked for the church and had to quit to continue dating me, lost most of her friends, ended up having a major existential crisis because her faith was her whole life and became a non-believer over the course of three years dating me. She ended up resenting me quite a bit. Very messy breakup. Loads of drama.
Who knows how it would go for you... But know that she won't be giving it up easy. If you're like me you'll be stubborn enough to stick with it for the sake of the challenge. But for all the bull**** it will cause you before and after, not to mention what you're doing to her life, you gotta ask yourself if it's worth it.
Who knows how it would go for you... But know that she won't be giving it up easy. If you're like me you'll be stubborn enough to stick with it for the sake of the challenge. But for all the bull**** it will cause you before and after, not to mention what you're doing to her life, you gotta ask yourself if it's worth it.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
The JW crowd is pretty cultish. They tend to be an extreme group, even among the religious population.
You could probably fvck her easily if you let them think they are converting you. That is a much higher percentage approach than trying to divorce her from her cult.
You could probably fvck her easily if you let them think they are converting you. That is a much higher percentage approach than trying to divorce her from her cult.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DarkDetective50
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The only advice I can give you is: run as far away as you can.
Desdinova
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Unless she's dissatisfied with the religion, she's most likely being friendly toward you in hopes that she will convert you. Do not convert. Do not attempt to date her. You will only get lead down a path of misery.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Tictac
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She must have been religious.
She kept yelling "Oh God" and "Oh my God"!
She kept yelling "Oh God" and "Oh my God"!
VikingKing
Banned
Now, just because a girl goes to church, or what ever service the particular religion has, doesn't mean she won't put out.
There are sluts at church, temple, or where ever.
I grew up going to church, youth group, bible camp, awana, ect.
I had a girl call me once (shes fat now) and asked if if I was going to youth group that night. I said no. Then she asked me if I want to go down in the nursery, in the basement and "fool around".
And this is when I was 14, so was she. All I did was tease her and her friend.
There are sluts at church, temple, or where ever.
I grew up going to church, youth group, bible camp, awana, ect.
I had a girl call me once (shes fat now) and asked if if I was going to youth group that night. I said no. Then she asked me if I want to go down in the nursery, in the basement and "fool around".
And this is when I was 14, so was she. All I did was tease her and her friend.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
In my experience, those girls were the most sluttish and fvcked up around me. When I was in school the school sluts were the most religious. When it comes to my friends, the most religious ones are the most fvcked less trust worthy. They lie the most, and drink the most.
The non religious girls were not as fvcked up as the religious ones I've messed with.
The non religious girls were not as fvcked up as the religious ones I've messed with.