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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bogman2121

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after looking at this site and realizing how i contributed to the stupidity i think that asking girls out and to dances should be a sticky but since im not a mod i cant do that and i dont have the best experience in asking them to dances so for me and all the other noobies you more experienced dj's should leave little tips on how you do things and your success stories on asking a girl to a dance or asking them out. so bring on the advice and stories
 

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oakraiderz2

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Only ask girls to big dances i.e. homecoming/prom. At smaller dances, go up to girls, get behind them and start dancing, theyll decide if they want to dance with you. If they dont just move on.
 

The Bishop

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Only ask girls to big dances i.e. homecoming/prom. At smaller dances, go up to girls, get behind them and start dancing, theyll decide if they want to dance with you. If they dont just move on.
yeah, thats how its normally done, bogman, although im not sure i understand your question :)
 

bogman2121

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im not asking a question. im saying that you should post your success stories on asking the chicas to dances and out. post your tried and true best way to get it done.
 
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