Your experience with women who volunteer

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

AttackFormation

Master Don Juan

Dec 4, 2016

I don't have any, but some of you must. I've been thinking about it, if you are eventually gonna have kids then you'd want to pack as many green flags in the mother as possible to prevent your and the kids' lives turning to sh!t. What could be more of a green flag than women who volunteer their own time to help other people just because they want to? (or animals, but that one might be iffier because they're "soooo cuuuuute!" - again you guys with experience chime in). You'd think it either takes or builds character to do that.

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.