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Your Encounters With Sexually Abused Woman?

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If a woman lets out she was sexualy abused as a child for many years, is that the biggest Red Flag?

I have only ever had two encounters with abused woman.. The one recently that I dumped.

Also a chick from my teens when I was around 20ish, and she was mentally fuked.. She would constantly smoke weed & go into fits of rage over the slightest thing.

The most common theme I found in both cases with these woman, was the sex with these chicks was amazing and they where good looking chicks.

Both had a history of some type of drug use, and both had some promiscuous history.

I don't blame the woman for what happened to her in the past, but some of these woman take a very WRONG path in order to overcome these issues.

Any stories of woman you have encountered with sexual abuse in the childhood?
 

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If a woman lets out she was sexualy abused as a child for many years, is that the biggest Red Flag?

I have only ever had two encounters with abused woman.. The one recently that I dumped.

Also a chick from my teens when I was around 20ish, and she was mentally fuked.. She would constantly smoke weed & go into fits of rage over the slightest thing.

The most common theme I found in both cases with these woman, was the sex with these chicks was amazing and they where good looking chicks.

Both had a history of some type of drug use, and both had some promiscuous history.

I don't blame the woman for what happened to her in the past, but some of these woman take a very WRONG path in order to overcome these issues.

Any stories of woman you have encountered with sexual abuse in the childhood?
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There are plenty of them. Just like plenty of men who have had feminine psychological warfare waged on them unbeknownst in “relationships”. This doesn’t even include the debilitating high school girl ruthless words to non “Alpha” male type “nerds”.

In present society, the classification of “abuse” has been expanded to include made up stories and girls who claim sexual abuse but if you investigate within her family...it appears that it was made up to facilitate the victim mentality and seeking of “poor girl” attention.

This does not take away from real abuse. Even in the present day Native American tribes, young girls have been taken by their father and brothers. An inconvenient truth that is never talked about because most native Americans vote for socialism/communism.
 

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What's the real purpose behind making a new thread asking the same questions you already asked in the last thread? To get more closure for leaving that abused sloot?

Everyone already knows beautiful women who had a rough childhood or were abused either sexually, physically, emotionally or a combination of them all are fuked up in the head. More times then not they start having sex at a young age while also picking up a drug/alcohol addiction to numb the pain of their past and also the emotionally broken women they've become as a result. That is how most cluster b women are bred. It's also very common that beautiful women in general are messed up in the head from all the attention they get.

It's well known those types of women are the most fun in bed. They submit in bed due to feeling all they're good for is being used n abused. Daddy issue girls are no different and like to be punished in bed to give themselves the sense of being dominated by a father figure. Most of them also have a fantasy of being raped. If you bring it up they will probably submit to the idea of role playing one.

Once you experience one of these women it becomes hard to find that same kind of sexual pleasure in emotionally healthy women. Thus you end up attracting the same kind of toxic women over and over again cause normal women don't stimulate you the same nor is the sex as good. Even with the all the fukn mind games they play it adds a layer of stimulation that most end up dealing with just to get that kinky sex with a emotionally broken mind fuk of a beautiful women. That's what makes them so got dam dangerous.
 
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If a woman lets out she was sexualy abused as a child for many years, is that the biggest Red Flag?

I have only ever had two encounters with abused woman.. The one recently that I dumped.

Also a chick from my teens when I was around 20ish, and she was mentally fuked.. She would constantly smoke weed & go into fits of rage over the slightest thing.

The most common theme I found in both cases with these woman, was the sex with these chicks was amazing and they where good looking chicks.

Both had a history of some type of drug use, and both had some promiscuous history.

I don't blame the woman for what happened to her in the past, but some of these woman take a very WRONG path in order to overcome these issues.

Any stories of woman you have encountered with sexual abuse in the childhood?
I dont bother. I am not putting humpty dumpty back together. While it may not be her fault, women subscribed to victimhood and rarely if ever do the work. That being rond of therapy. Furthermore with the popularity of false accusations, without proof, jail time, and nothing else, DID NOT HAPPEN. I don't care to hear about it. Far hotter women eith far less baggage.

Any mention of the following is about as big a red flag as feminism or mentioned of patriarchy. I am out.
 

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What's the real purpose behind making a new thread asking the same questions you already asked in the last thread? To get more closure for leaving that abused sloot?

Everyone already knows beautiful women who had a rough childhood or were abused either sexually, physically, emotionally or a combination of them all are fuked up in the head. More times then not they start having sex at a young age while also picking up a drug/alcohol addiction to numb the pain of their past and also the emotionally broken women they've become. That is how most cluster b's women are bred. It's also very common that beautiful women in general are messed up in the head from all the attention they get.

It's well known those types of women are the most fun in bed. They submit in bed due to feeling all they're good for is being used n abused. Daddy issue girls are no different and like to be punished in bed to give themselves the sense of being dominated by a father figure. Most of them also have a fantasy of being raped. If you bring it up they will probably submit to the idea of role playing one.

Once you experience one of these women it becomes hard to find that same kind of sexual pleasure in emotionally healthy women. Thus you end up attracting the same kind of toxic women over and over again cause normal women don't stimulate you the same nor is the sex as good. Even with the all the fukn mind games they play it adds a layer of stimulation that most end up dealing with just to get that kinky sex with a emotionally broken mind fuk of a beautiful women. That's what makes them so got dam dangerous.

Well I have had limited experience with abused woman... but what you say there is a fukin eye opener.

They actually do love the idea of bondage, submission, and even being called *****s or slvts when you bang them.

I can relate, because the sex does get extremely addictive..
 

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They actually do love the idea of bondage, submission, and even being called *****s or slvts when you bang them.

I can relate, because the sex does get extremely addictive..
They love to be used, abused, hair pulled, smothered, play raped, choked, spat on, nutted on, ect. That kind of kinky sex and control of a beautiful women in the bedroom releases hormones like oxytocin which creates a bigger n stronger bond between the 2 of you, and the body also releases large doses of testosterone which all causes you to have painfully enjoyable and explosive ejaculations.

You start to feel like the manliest of men during and after intercourse. The overdose of those hormones on top of the extremely pleasurable ejaculations are usually not felt by most, so when you actually experience it, you become hooked like a heroin addict.

Then you try having sex with a normal, non kinky, non stimulating, non submissive women and the sex is no where near as pleasurable or enjoyable partly due to lack of those hormones being released. That toxic women is always in your mind, she then becomes the standard of the sex you want. Just the thought of having to fuk a normal women again causes your mind to go though all kinds of emotions one being depression.

You yearn for her, you begin to think about the sex non stop, how bad you want it again, you think you can control her, change her, make her see things clearly, erase the feelings you have/had for her, just to get another hit of her glorious, addictive, toxic, meat trap of a pu$$y!
 
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Thats exactly how it is bruv i swear... All i can think of is her taking dik like a fuking slvt...

This girl was willing to suck other dudes and and other woman for me...

This is the only thing they have to offer.. filthy sex!

Part of you wants it.. and doesn't want to lose it.


Part of you knows, nothing good will come out of this in the long run.

But this is how you become addicted to that puzzy...

HOWEVER... sometimes you just have to see the ***** for what she is... A fuking *****!

Its when we let feelings get involved that things go wrong.


Keep the feelings completely out, and you can have an adenventure with these hoes.
 

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Damn... I didn't even realise, that there is a direct link between abused as a child woman and BDP or other Cluster B disorders...


CONCLUSION: These results suggest that childhood emotional abuse and neglect are broadly represented among personality disorders, and associated with indices of clinical severity among patients with borderline personality disorder. Childhood sexual and physical abuse are highlighted as predictors of both paranoid and antisocial personality disorders. These results help qualify prior observations of the association of childhood sexual abuse with borderline personality disorder.
 

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Damn... I didn't even realise, that there is a direct link between abused as a child woman and BDP or other Cluster B disorders...
The childhood years are when and how a person learns to deal with others and when their personality forms. If it’s messed up, said person will likely be also unless psych care to repair damage is completed at some point.

Some childhoods are worse than others, but if hers sounds like a horror story, Run, because she is too.
In my experience, Red flags don’t come any larger than this one.
 

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Methods: Traumatic childhood experiences of 80 borderline inpatients, 73 depressed inpatients and 51 healthy controls were assessed with the Traumatic Antecedents Questionnaire and the Sexual Abuse Scale of Early Trauma Inventory.
Results: Adverse childhood experiences (neglect, emotional abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, witnessing trauma) were more prevalent among borderline patients than among depressed and healthy controls. Borderline patients reported severe sexual abuse, characterized by incest, penetration and repetitive abuse. Sexually abused borderline patients experienced more physical and emotional abuse than borderlines who were not sexually abused. The strongest predictors of borderline diagnosis were sexual abuse, intrafamilial physical abuse and neglect by the caretakers.
Conclusions: Overall, our results suggest that a reported childhood history of abuse and neglect are both common and highly discriminating for borderline patients in Hungary as well.nub
 

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Fark man.. I didn't dodge just a bullet... I dodged a fukin Cluster Bomb!
 

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Yes, the hot porn sex only gets you so far, then the crazy comes out…
Bruv not only was she abused as a child, but I have seen the scars on her arms from self harming...

STRONG possibility that I was dealing with a BDP.

Who Engages in Self-Mutilation?
Unfortunately, self-mutilation is a common behavior, particularly among those with BPD. One study found that about 40% of college students have engaged in self-mutilation at least once and about 10% have engaged in self-mutilation 10 or more times. Evidence suggests that men and women engage in self-mutilation at equal rates.

People who have experienced maltreatment during their childhood, such as through sexual abuse or neglect, or who were separated from a caregiver in childhood, are at greater risk for self-mutilation than the general population.
 

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Some BPD’s self cut, others don’t. They are anywhere along a spectrum of low functioning to high functioning with varying characteristics per individual.
 

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Stop talking about this woman. It is only doing you harm.
I'm past that stage.. Seeing things clearly now.

Just thought I would do a little research into chicks with that kinda background..

Better informed incase she tries to come back.
 

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Some BPD’s self cut, others don’t. They are anywhere along a spectrum of low functioning to high functioning with varying characteristics per individual.
This one is probably high functioning.

Has a reasonable job and an okay property.
 

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I'm past that stage.. Seeing things clearly now.

Just thought I would do a little research into chicks with that kinda background..

Better informed incase she tries to come back.
Yep, Education prevents the same mistake being ever made again.…
 

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I'm past that stage.. Seeing things clearly now.

Just thought I would do a little research into chicks with that kinda background..

Better informed incase she tries to come back.
No. You keep posting about her. You are not past it.
 
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