"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your emotional work out

Roly

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Do you have an emotional workout? It's something you could do to bring out the positive emotions in you. A good way of doing this is to set up atleast one hour a day. For one hour a day, try to release those awesome, positive emotions. A good time for doing this would be early in the morning.

You could:

- Listen to highly energetic, uplifting music.

- Meditate

- Watch something funny

- Anything that you could think of, each person has his preference.

In order to make the girl feel the emotions of attraction, we ourselves have to feel them as well. This is not even about women, it's about our own personal happiness which should be priority number #1.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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organizedconfusion

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Roly said:
In order to make the girl feel the emotions of attraction, we ourselves have to feel them as well. This is not even about women, it's about our own personal happiness which should be priority number #1.
you hit it right on the nail dude :cheer: this i think is the most crucial factor! how ever you feel will automaticly be mirrored by the other person...from my experiances.


P.S.
thats such a cool little feature, i am suprised more people don't use it to prove a point..sure would be obnoxious as hell
 
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