“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Your current targets and action plan on how to close them

Target_100

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Heres mine:



HBYOUNG: Keep meeting her as friends and being a really cool friend. I won't ask her for a boring "Old-people-lets-go-on-a-date-just-the-two-of-us-date". If we hook up in a club, I'll probably try to fclose her. Nice.

HBsFROMLASTWEEKEND: Just wait and if I hear from any of them, try to hook up, if not then I'll send a few texts in a week or so.

HBBIGASS: I'll send a textmessage to check if shell be in my area anytime soon. If so, then I'll contact her again when she's here.

HBMODEL: I think I overplayed the not be available on her, and we texted some time ago but havent heard from her since. I'll just wait and see if I hear from her.

HBFOREIGN: After she colored her hair I'm not really interested anymore...

HBOLD: Wait until she gets to my town. I probably will hear form her then and likely fclose after a little date :)

HBFOREIGN2: Too fat in daylight :)


As you see, I need to add prospects that are good looking and with a good chance of closing. I hope to do that this weekend!



Now list your's!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well there's this lvl 70 troll mage attacking me so he's my main target. He just blinked after frost novaing me and went for pally, I'll intervene my pally, blood rage and then do an intercept and I'll close them distances to catch him with blink on cooldown forcing IB.
 

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HBaWESOME - I gotta make a thread about her. Big problem, I like her personality. Couldn't kiss close yesterday, dunno if she is showing IOI's or not by walking me to the train station, or if that was her way of saying "leave now" (although she did walk around with me, not gone DIRECTLY to the train station. so I dunno) as you can see I'm putting waaaay too much thought into this, so I'm basically an AFC heading into a relationship and I better snap out of it.

HBicecream - I know where she works, so I might visit her right when her shift is ending and take her out to eat. Or I might just call her monday and set something up. I'm in the same situation as you with HBMODEL with this chick. We texted back and forth the day we met (her initiation) but then I kinda forgot about her, it's only been a few days. I made a thread about her not too long ago.

HBjill - fvck this b!tch. It's her turn to call me. I don't really see any chemistry here.

HBwendys - found out she was 16. fvck that.

I think that's all for now. I may of missed one or 2.

oh yea

HBsex - nympho chick I picked up that works at an adult store. she comes over and has sex with me live on camera when she wants to make some money. she hasn't come over in awhile because I sold a video of us fvcking and some guy she was "seeing" saw it and wont ever speak to her again. so she's been kinda b!tchy lately. So I might have to "reclose"...I took her to the movies the other day and she gave me head in my car. So I might just wait til she sends me an IM and i'll get her over my house for more "work"

bein a pornstar sucks
 

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Ha, this thread makea me laugh.


HBCutey: Don't see her very often, but she shows alot of IOI, so i'll just wait till i have some time and see if she wants to do anything.

HBgeeky: she's such a geek but she's got a great body and face, already have plans for costume party, will try and escalate as far as possible.

HBsecretary: a secretary at my school, i've already gone to lunch with her, gotta be careful with this one, she holds my transcipts! Will just continue to flirt and build rapport

HBAnime: met her when wingmating a friend at an anime convention, Gotta love teh chicks who love to dress up. Will meet up for coffee sometime next week.

HBSlut: Not after much more than a lay here, she's been around but she's kept herself in good shape. party + Booze = win.

HBAntiflake: met her yesterday, got #, will invite to action date. Seems like a good prospect.
those are my bigger more immediate prospects, tehre are more but those are long distance and i'm not holding out for much.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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trd323

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Target_100 said:
Heres mine:



HBYOUNG: Keep meeting her as friends and being a really cool friend. I won't ask her for a boring "Old-people-lets-go-on-a-date-just-the-two-of-us-date". If we hook up in a club, I'll probably try to fclose her. Nice.

HBsFROMLASTWEEKEND: Just wait and if I hear from any of them, try to hook up, if not then I'll send a few texts in a week or so.

HBBIGASS: I'll send a textmessage to check if shell be in my area anytime soon. If so, then I'll contact her again when she's here.

HBMODEL: I think I overplayed the not be available on her, and we texted some time ago but havent heard from her since. I'll just wait and see if I hear from her.

HBFOREIGN: After she colored her hair I'm not really interested anymore...

HBOLD: Wait until she gets to my town. I probably will hear form her then and likely fclose after a little date :)

HBFOREIGN2: Too fat in daylight :)


As you see, I need to add prospects that are good looking and with a good chance of closing. I hope to do that this weekend!



Now list your's!
All those girls and you cant find the good in any of them? You guys are AFC as they come.
 

MascaraSnake

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mostly studying right now, so...

Spanish class girl: Quite older than me, but I like her style. Will flirt and build rapport, might ask out.
Math class girl: A bit older, only this one has the added bonus of being a Iyengar yoga instructor (SCORE!). Will flirt and build rapport, might ask out.

That's about it right now...it's not like I'm in any great hurry. I got laid earlier this summer, so I'm good 'till New Year's.
 
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SharinganUser

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trd323 said:
All those girls and you cant find the good in any of them? You guys are AFC as they come.

I agree. Planning ahead to much is counter productive. You can't be a natural if you have to plan a head so much. What do you do if something unexpected happens?
 
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