"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your current targets and action plan on how to close them

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Heres mine:



HBYOUNG: Keep meeting her as friends and being a really cool friend. I won't ask her for a boring "Old-people-lets-go-on-a-date-just-the-two-of-us-date". If we hook up in a club, I'll probably try to fclose her. Nice.

HBsFROMLASTWEEKEND: Just wait and if I hear from any of them, try to hook up, if not then I'll send a few texts in a week or so.

HBBIGASS: I'll send a textmessage to check if shell be in my area anytime soon. If so, then I'll contact her again when she's here.

HBMODEL: I think I overplayed the not be available on her, and we texted some time ago but havent heard from her since. I'll just wait and see if I hear from her.

HBFOREIGN: After she colored her hair I'm not really interested anymore...

HBOLD: Wait until she gets to my town. I probably will hear form her then and likely fclose after a little date :)

HBFOREIGN2: Too fat in daylight :)


As you see, I need to add prospects that are good looking and with a good chance of closing. I hope to do that this weekend!



Now list your's!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well there's this lvl 70 troll mage attacking me so he's my main target. He just blinked after frost novaing me and went for pally, I'll intervene my pally, blood rage and then do an intercept and I'll close them distances to catch him with blink on cooldown forcing IB.
 
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HBaWESOME - I gotta make a thread about her. Big problem, I like her personality. Couldn't kiss close yesterday, dunno if she is showing IOI's or not by walking me to the train station, or if that was her way of saying "leave now" (although she did walk around with me, not gone DIRECTLY to the train station. so I dunno) as you can see I'm putting waaaay too much thought into this, so I'm basically an AFC heading into a relationship and I better snap out of it.

HBicecream - I know where she works, so I might visit her right when her shift is ending and take her out to eat. Or I might just call her monday and set something up. I'm in the same situation as you with HBMODEL with this chick. We texted back and forth the day we met (her initiation) but then I kinda forgot about her, it's only been a few days. I made a thread about her not too long ago.

HBjill - fvck this b!tch. It's her turn to call me. I don't really see any chemistry here.

HBwendys - found out she was 16. fvck that.

I think that's all for now. I may of missed one or 2.

oh yea

HBsex - nympho chick I picked up that works at an adult store. she comes over and has sex with me live on camera when she wants to make some money. she hasn't come over in awhile because I sold a video of us fvcking and some guy she was "seeing" saw it and wont ever speak to her again. so she's been kinda b!tchy lately. So I might have to "reclose"...I took her to the movies the other day and she gave me head in my car. So I might just wait til she sends me an IM and i'll get her over my house for more "work"

bein a pornstar sucks
 
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Ha, this thread makea me laugh.


HBCutey: Don't see her very often, but she shows alot of IOI, so i'll just wait till i have some time and see if she wants to do anything.

HBgeeky: she's such a geek but she's got a great body and face, already have plans for costume party, will try and escalate as far as possible.

HBsecretary: a secretary at my school, i've already gone to lunch with her, gotta be careful with this one, she holds my transcipts! Will just continue to flirt and build rapport

HBAnime: met her when wingmating a friend at an anime convention, Gotta love teh chicks who love to dress up. Will meet up for coffee sometime next week.

HBSlut: Not after much more than a lay here, she's been around but she's kept herself in good shape. party + Booze = win.

HBAntiflake: met her yesterday, got #, will invite to action date. Seems like a good prospect.
those are my bigger more immediate prospects, tehre are more but those are long distance and i'm not holding out for much.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Target_100 said:
Heres mine:



HBYOUNG: Keep meeting her as friends and being a really cool friend. I won't ask her for a boring "Old-people-lets-go-on-a-date-just-the-two-of-us-date". If we hook up in a club, I'll probably try to fclose her. Nice.

HBsFROMLASTWEEKEND: Just wait and if I hear from any of them, try to hook up, if not then I'll send a few texts in a week or so.

HBBIGASS: I'll send a textmessage to check if shell be in my area anytime soon. If so, then I'll contact her again when she's here.

HBMODEL: I think I overplayed the not be available on her, and we texted some time ago but havent heard from her since. I'll just wait and see if I hear from her.

HBFOREIGN: After she colored her hair I'm not really interested anymore...

HBOLD: Wait until she gets to my town. I probably will hear form her then and likely fclose after a little date :)

HBFOREIGN2: Too fat in daylight :)


As you see, I need to add prospects that are good looking and with a good chance of closing. I hope to do that this weekend!



Now list your's!
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All those girls and you cant find the good in any of them? You guys are AFC as they come.
 
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mostly studying right now, so...

Spanish class girl: Quite older than me, but I like her style. Will flirt and build rapport, might ask out.
Math class girl: A bit older, only this one has the added bonus of being a Iyengar yoga instructor (SCORE!). Will flirt and build rapport, might ask out.

That's about it right now...it's not like I'm in any great hurry. I got laid earlier this summer, so I'm good 'till New Year's.
 
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trd323 said:
All those girls and you cant find the good in any of them? You guys are AFC as they come.
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I agree. Planning ahead to much is counter productive. You can't be a natural if you have to plan a head so much. What do you do if something unexpected happens?
 
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