"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Your Course of Action:

Colinski282

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
152
Reaction score
1
A girl you like and talk to quite often wont see you in person. You wont stand for this, what is your course of action?

Give her a set time before you ninja out?

Just say fvck it?

Other ideas?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Enjin 7

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2005
Messages
194
Reaction score
1
what like you met her on the internet or something?

ive tried that a few times.

she is not as hot as in her pictures.

well one time she will be, and you will take her to dinner and she will rub on your weiner really fast until white stuff comes out. but honestly...

she is not as hot as in her pictures.
 

Dust 2 Dust

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2002
Messages
2,163
Reaction score
680
Location
Florida
This happened to me before so I basically started to ignore her and eventually she came around and asked me to meet her.
 

Ouzo

Don Juan
Joined
May 19, 2005
Messages
126
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
N Zed
Originally posted by Colinski282
A girl you like and talk to quite often wont see you in person. You wont stand for this, what is your course of action?

Give her a set time before you ninja out?

Just say fvck it?

Other ideas?
Next her.
 

flexion_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2003
Messages
1,617
Reaction score
10
Age
56
Well there isn't much reason to talk to her often unless she is going to meet you right? Pretty much play it that way - if she wants to talk to you then she does it in person. You are too busy for the phone crap.

If she doesn't want to meet you in person then she isn't interested in you. Unless you are making it too easy for her to just have you as a phone/pen pal...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Kitsune

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2005
Messages
47
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
London, UK
Next her, and block her IM, she's not interested in you at all if she doesn't want to even meet you.

Internet meetings can be overly freaky, especially with all this overrated madness about stalkers over the internet and the fact that he/she might send you a completely fake photo.

A good idea is to suggest that she tag onto something that you were already doing, i.e. asking her to come and join you and some of your friends for dinner or something. That way if you get stood up, it wasn't the main point of the meeting anyway and you can still have an enjoyable evening.
 

Colinski282

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
152
Reaction score
1
Not sure where the internet stuff came into play, but its nothing about that. I met this little hb8 at work, and was the last time i seen her.

But yes Dust 2 Dust i like your input bro. And Flexion yes, i am too busy for this phone ****.
 
Top