"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PokerStar

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one thing i have been lacking over the last few months is getting out of my comfort zone.

Sure, waking up everyday, taking a shower, heading to work, going to bjj or yoga sounds like fun but im getting tired of my routines. Having a routine is great, keeps me regular, keeps me safe.

But thats the thing. im tired of feeling safe, i want excitment, i want to venture out of my comfort zone. I want travel to europe, i want to ask that girl on the 8th floor out to dinner. i want to make a move on this other girl who ive been fawning over the last little bit. i want to end my regular routine and start a new one.

I think through this will help fill a void that has been growing larger and larger everyday. dont get me wrong. im not depressed or anything like that. Im a very positive person with great values.

its just that the goals that i have set almost a year ago, have almost been met and their has been a lack of challenges for myself to take on.

Im tired of feeling like a caged animal. I thinks its time to make a change. I think its time toget out of my comfort zone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So what specifically are you going to do? Sounds like you're restless and chomping at the bit, and that shows that you're ready for big changes.
 

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thats just it atom. i have to sit and write it what I want to do to reach a next level in my life.

I think by writing it down some new goals, would be best.

I dont know what specifically needs to be done but its going to be a fun filled evening tonight.
 

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While I fully support regular activities/hobbies as part of the DJ lifestyle, it can definitely make one feel confined at times.

Think of the things you guys do regularly such as the gym, martial arts, dance, music practice, meditation/yoga, etc. No matter how passionate you might be about these things, I think sometimes you need to take a break and do something spontaneous to keep life exciting. It could also mean changing hobbies or setting new goals.
 
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