"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your Cell/Mobile Phone. Use It.

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This tip is aimed at forgetful guys, like me.
If your phone is like mine, when you add a number, you can give it a name, and at any time add notes to it.
When i take a girls name and number into my phone i add something descriptive so that i can remember who she is a couple of days later.
This may be the name of the club i'm at or the suburb which she lives in.

I've been doing that for a good year and it works a treat.

I hinted at this before. "at any time add notes to it." This is something I have JUST started doing. I should have started long ago.
Here's a quick story which happened to me recently. I met a girl, Michelle. Whilst listening to her, she mentioned her "new kitten - toby". Well, i added a note in with her name "new kitten - toby". While preparing to take her on a date later in the week, i popped into the petshop and bought a little toy for kittens. At the end of the date, when i was dropping her off I mentioned the toy for toby. Of course she was super impressed that i remembered toby and was so thoughtful. I was invited in to meet toby..
The rest is history.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HAHAHA... good idea, but I hope you mean after you walk away or something.. because it'd be real weird if you stand there for 2 minutes just writing something in your phone with her standing there.

Still good though.:p
 
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I should have started long ago.
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wow this tip is one of those that is so obvious that I wanna hit myself for not doing it. Maybe later this week I will clean out my phonebook and report back with how many numbers I've gotten who I have no idea who they belong to.
 
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Originally posted by LuckyDevil6
HAHAHA... good idea, but I hope you mean after you walk away or something.. because it'd be real weird if you stand there for 2 minutes just writing something in your phone with her standing there.

Still good though.:p
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well you could pretend u were writing a txt message..

but i've always walked away..

i get most of my numbers when clubbing, so i add info in the toilet when i'm urinating :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I love those cheaper phones targeted at business users (ie. the Siemens models). They have a crapload of space for you to type info on people.
 
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