"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your Cell/Mobile Phone. Use It.

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This tip is aimed at forgetful guys, like me.
If your phone is like mine, when you add a number, you can give it a name, and at any time add notes to it.
When i take a girls name and number into my phone i add something descriptive so that i can remember who she is a couple of days later.
This may be the name of the club i'm at or the suburb which she lives in.

I've been doing that for a good year and it works a treat.

I hinted at this before. "at any time add notes to it." This is something I have JUST started doing. I should have started long ago.
Here's a quick story which happened to me recently. I met a girl, Michelle. Whilst listening to her, she mentioned her "new kitten - toby". Well, i added a note in with her name "new kitten - toby". While preparing to take her on a date later in the week, i popped into the petshop and bought a little toy for kittens. At the end of the date, when i was dropping her off I mentioned the toy for toby. Of course she was super impressed that i remembered toby and was so thoughtful. I was invited in to meet toby..
The rest is history.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HAHAHA... good idea, but I hope you mean after you walk away or something.. because it'd be real weird if you stand there for 2 minutes just writing something in your phone with her standing there.

Still good though.:p
 
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I should have started long ago.
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wow this tip is one of those that is so obvious that I wanna hit myself for not doing it. Maybe later this week I will clean out my phonebook and report back with how many numbers I've gotten who I have no idea who they belong to.
 
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Originally posted by LuckyDevil6
HAHAHA... good idea, but I hope you mean after you walk away or something.. because it'd be real weird if you stand there for 2 minutes just writing something in your phone with her standing there.

Still good though.:p
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well you could pretend u were writing a txt message..

but i've always walked away..

i get most of my numbers when clubbing, so i add info in the toilet when i'm urinating :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I love those cheaper phones targeted at business users (ie. the Siemens models). They have a crapload of space for you to type info on people.
 
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