manfrombelow
Master Don Juan
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Helllo gentlemen, here I am again.
What was your breaking point that finally caused you to break up with your LTR/main plate?
In my case, it was when I realized that nothing I did was good enough in her eyes. Yes there were times that she acted nice, feminine, and submissive... but only about 20-25% of the time. The rest of the time, she always had this tendency to challenge my words and actions, from the littlest things as choosing the curtains' colours to even picking what movie to watch. She liked to have things her way. And when, for whatever reasons that she could not have things her way, she usually threw tantrums everywhere.
At the beginning of our relationship, when she was still submissive most of the time (because I hadn't moved in with her), she cried and acted like a victim. But when I finally moved in her apartment (FVCKING BAD MISTAKE, I KNOW!), I could see her respect and interest level in me dropped, to the point she's not afraid to curse me with words that only enemies would throw to each other whenever I refused to succumb to her wishes.
Other than that, every day life with her is a constant mental torture because she would always nagged, demanded, and said things that made me feel like a pice of sh!t.
So, eventually, even though I know that it's mostly MY FAULT that she's not submissive to me (I was staying in her HER place, my income then was way lower than her, that's why!), but I also knew it's not the legit reason for me to let her keep treating me like sh!t, so I called it off. I loved her and wanted the best for her, but I needed to save myself FIRST.
Overall, she's not a bad person. She's well educated, 7.5/10 in terms of look. But she's not a happy person, because she always wants to control men in her life. Before we met, she just got out from a bad marriage (or so she said). But now, when I look back, with such a tendency to control men in her life, it's really hard for people like her to have happy long term relationships with any man.
And most importantly: Her father, a really nice chap, tall, handsome, and always treated me well, is a PVSSY in the relationship with her mother. If only you guys could see how her mother commanded & ordered the poor guy around like a puppy. I guess that's her biggest problem to not have an Alpha-typed father.
That's why, whenever I'm asked by guys who are younger than me about what to look for in a woman to build a LTR with, I always replied: "Look at the way her mother treats her father. And look at their family's power hierachy. If the leader of their house is the father, then it's good. But if her father is only the follower, then she's not good material for LTR. You can fvck her, but don't hope for anything better."
What was your breaking point that finally caused you to break up with your LTR/main plate?
In my case, it was when I realized that nothing I did was good enough in her eyes. Yes there were times that she acted nice, feminine, and submissive... but only about 20-25% of the time. The rest of the time, she always had this tendency to challenge my words and actions, from the littlest things as choosing the curtains' colours to even picking what movie to watch. She liked to have things her way. And when, for whatever reasons that she could not have things her way, she usually threw tantrums everywhere.
At the beginning of our relationship, when she was still submissive most of the time (because I hadn't moved in with her), she cried and acted like a victim. But when I finally moved in her apartment (FVCKING BAD MISTAKE, I KNOW!), I could see her respect and interest level in me dropped, to the point she's not afraid to curse me with words that only enemies would throw to each other whenever I refused to succumb to her wishes.
Other than that, every day life with her is a constant mental torture because she would always nagged, demanded, and said things that made me feel like a pice of sh!t.
So, eventually, even though I know that it's mostly MY FAULT that she's not submissive to me (I was staying in her HER place, my income then was way lower than her, that's why!), but I also knew it's not the legit reason for me to let her keep treating me like sh!t, so I called it off. I loved her and wanted the best for her, but I needed to save myself FIRST.
Overall, she's not a bad person. She's well educated, 7.5/10 in terms of look. But she's not a happy person, because she always wants to control men in her life. Before we met, she just got out from a bad marriage (or so she said). But now, when I look back, with such a tendency to control men in her life, it's really hard for people like her to have happy long term relationships with any man.
And most importantly: Her father, a really nice chap, tall, handsome, and always treated me well, is a PVSSY in the relationship with her mother. If only you guys could see how her mother commanded & ordered the poor guy around like a puppy. I guess that's her biggest problem to not have an Alpha-typed father.
That's why, whenever I'm asked by guys who are younger than me about what to look for in a woman to build a LTR with, I always replied: "Look at the way her mother treats her father. And look at their family's power hierachy. If the leader of their house is the father, then it's good. But if her father is only the follower, then she's not good material for LTR. You can fvck her, but don't hope for anything better."
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