"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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your boys always have your back.

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So we have a outdoor concert series that plays on a weekly basis, its free and there are always the hottest girls in the city, and two dollar drafts. You can't beat it.

So I meetup there with two of my buddies, we check out the concert, some hasbeen band but we had a good time. So about 10pm rolls around, my buddy gets a call, its one of the girls that he knows from school so she's like yeah come over and hang out with us.

So my one buddy and I walk over there and there are eight girls there ranging in age from 21 to about 24. They are all in some college sorority. Quality is the key word here, honestly 7 out of 8 were knockout gorgeous. One of the girls took pictures of the group, I will be getting a copy of those pictures to post on here, so that you guys don't call bs.

So I introduce myself to all of them, starting with the geeky looking girl. You should have seen their looks "aww your so sweet"

So they are like hey we want to go to this club, its ontop of a building. So my buddy's like dude I gotta leave you, I gotta be up super early for work, and I can't go anywhere but home.

So the girl to guy ratio goes to 8:1.

So, we're having a good time, i'm talking to every single girl equally, I just did it, I wasn't nervous about cracking jokes about the super hot girls, and it was really cool and chill. So these girls started buying me drinks. I bought one drink there all night.

I see the afc's all standing outside the dance deck with their boys sipping drinks. So I lead the girls to the dancefloor, you should have seen the wide open jaws on these dudes, it was funny. Normally i'm not much of a dancer (ok I suck bad at dancing)

So we get to dancing, its a typical club playing techno/top40/stuff like that. So we are dancing on a deck that overlooks the skyline, on the roof of a building. I'm dancing with these hot girls that are exposing a ton of skin and wearing the shortest skirts ever. Its like 80 degrees with a slight breeze, deffinitely had my moment of zen.

So I just said what the hell. I get in there and do my thing. So this one blonde from our group is super cute I was talking to her for a long time, so i'm not dancing with her I'm dancing with her friend that could be a model.

I see this huge bodybuilder type dude start doing this grind thing with the blonde, then my finest hour happened.

She pushes this dude away and he has this shocked look on his face, then she yells to me "come save me". This kind of stuff never happens to me. It took every ounce of me not to grin like a little schoolboy.

So I start dancing with this chic, she's really super into it. So we start kissing a little bit.

Next thing I know she was leaving with me, and it was a done deal.

So before we left, every single one of the girls gave me a hug and kiss and said that they would love to do it again sometime, and I got four phone numbers and went home with one girl.

So the bottom line is that your boys always have your back, even if they aren't there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lebRambo

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hmmm.....sounds like dumb luck to me. Miracles really do come true! :D
 

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Originally posted by lebRambo
hmmm.....sounds like dumb luck to me. Miracles really do come true! :D
Yes it is dumb luck indeed. Haha.
 

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Nice!

You brougt some joy back into my life...

And, I think I'll borrow that line from you, "we have your back, even though we ain't there... "

Quite fitting, since I once traveled to 200 km to another town to help out a mate...

//Deus
 

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Your night was like discovering plutonium on accident.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whoa JH6, not too bad dude. Strange tho, many of the sorority girls at the college i go to are Stuck up and just like the frat guys. Man, if only most of us sosuavers would get out of our lazy asses and go out there. :eek:
 

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oops i just tripped...what the hell its a bag full of money!
 

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Originally posted by lebRambo
hmmm.....sounds like dumb luck to me. Miracles really do come true! :D
Sounds like someone's jealous. ;)

Originally posted by DrDope
Your night was like discovering plutonium on accident.
And someone else. :eek:

Originally posted by Skel
oops i just tripped...what the hell its a bag full of money!
Oh **** it's an envy-orgy!! :woo:

I can GUARANTEE you that if JH6 had no "game", then no amount of luck in the WORLD would've gotten him laid. He obviously knows how to stay relaxed and confident around women and act like a MAN to get what he wants. Most of the people on this forum would've hit the panic-button and tried to scramble for the right "Don-Juan technique" to impress these ladies, relegating them IMMEDIATELY to the friendzone.

But whatever...you guys keep believing that women like to roll the dice with who they sleep with. :p

JH, you learned something very important tonight...you learned that somewhere inside you, YOU DO have the natural ability to seduce beautiful women. Maybe it was "luck" that brought it out this time, but the point is that it's THERE, and it just needs to be harnessed.
 

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How does that old saying go...? Oh yeah, YOU MAKE YOUR OWN LUCK

I don't get the subject line though.... I mean, if your friend had been there, I doubt his presence could have affected your game, 8:2 is still a far better ratio than most men can even dream of. And if this story is true and you slept with one of the girls and still got four numbers out of it, these girls are LOOSE! Just the kind of girls I want to know! Great score for you, JH6!
 

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Everyone is congratulating him. He did a great job taking advantage of a very fortuitous turn of events.

I thought the subject line was referring to his boys on this board who had his back, but I could be wrong.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by drZaius09
How does that old saying go...? Oh yeah, YOU MAKE YOUR OWN LUCK

I don't get the subject line though.... I mean, if your friend had been there, I doubt his presence could have affected your game, 8:2 is still a far better ratio than most men can even dream of. And if this story is true and you slept with one of the girls and still got four numbers out of it, these girls are LOOSE! Just the kind of girls I want to know! Great score for you, JH6!
Thanks guys, the ratio was 8:1, my buddy left me alone with these girls.

No, I don't think that these girls are loose. I was talking to a couple of the girls, some already graduated college and are in master's programs. They are bright girls not tramps.

Yes I did get four numbers, but none of the four were interested in me except for the one that I left with. I got that vibe that they just wanted to hangout and be friends. The one girl told me that she had an inground pool and to come over and "bring my friends anytime". I never said that the four girls wanted me, and I don't think that they did. Honestly though, I'm absolutely content with that. I don't have to bang every super hot girl, just chilling with the group of them is good, and it did wonders for my confidence.

I woke up this morning with an untouchable feeling of euphoria.

Honestly yesterday was a huge turning point for me. I've been reading every page on this site for months, and I started DJ bootcamp with my good buddy. We were in freggin Target Greatlands talking to girls, at first I just plain couldn't do it, but then I established some confidence, and I had this girl "help me" pick out a greeting card. I didn't get her number but we ended up talking for five minutes.

I look back to only a few months ago and I could see myself not saying one word to these girls, and wanting desperately to, then going back to my moody ex girlfriend, and ending up jerking it because she didn't put out.

But yesterday I put myself as the center of attention in the group, and it really paid off.

I'm starting to learn that it really doesn't matter, why should I be nervous about talking to an amazing looking girl? I'm 22 and i'm done wasting time. Every single weekend counts, and I don't want to regret my 22+ period like I regretted highschool.

The worst she can say is "go f yourself", and i'm fine with that. If she said that I would just show her my super white teeth and say "your loss hun"

I feel like the tables have turned, and I am the one choosing which girl I want to hang out with, not the other way around. We have been brainwashed into "getting girls to like us". We should be "acting like ourselves, and not putting on a front", and if hot girls want to hang out then thats cool, if they don't then they can "go f themselves"

Its really a contact sport, just mingle with as many hotties as possible and your odds go way up. I talked to every single girl in the group, and had good eye contact and presence with each one of them. I didn't think too hard about any DJ tricks (except eye contact), it just came naturally for the first time ever in my life.

For the guys posting bs comments, hey thats fine. All I would say is just go out and do it. Get your guys together and go to a club. These girls are out to party and its a good time.

For the final record. I do not consider myself to be a "hot guy". Not even close, i'm average at best.

I'm about 6'4'' and 185 pounds. But, that doesn't mean that I don't care about myself. I have been hitting the weights to make myself feel more confident. I went out and got contacts, a new haircut, and I am eating right all for the same reason.

School is out of session and its time to get some play.
 

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Originally posted by DrDope
Everyone is congratulating him. He did a great job taking advantage of a very fortuitous turn of events.

I thought the subject line was referring to his boys on this board who had his back, but I could be wrong.
Yeah the subject doesn't make perfect sense, you have to read into it a bit.

I have been feeling like crap after I broke up with this girl, then another one ditched me, and my good buddies put me in a real good situation.
 
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