"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Weezy

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Tough situation...

My good buddy's sister was out partying with us this weekend, I've known her for a while but been in LTR's.

Anyway, my wing ends up locking down a lady for the night and he leaves his sister with me. Next thing you know I'm on my way back to her house to sleep on the couch, only I ended up in her bed instead and it was on.

So next day she told her brother that I just slept on the couch.. He never asked me a thing, she's an awesome chick and I'm kinda interested in pursing it..

What do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ThatMysteriousGuy

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Weezy said:
Tough situation...

My good buddy's sister was out partying with us this weekend, I've known her for a while but been in LTR's.

Anyway, my wing ends up locking down a lady for the night and he leaves his sister with me. Next thing you know I'm on my way back to her house to sleep on the couch, only I ended up in her bed instead and it was on.

So next day she told her brother that I just slept on the couch.. He never asked me a thing, she's an awesome chick and I'm kinda interested in pursing it..

What do you guys think?
Keep it a complete secret and don't get hung up on her in any way.

Don't tell anyone you know, don't brag, they'll rat you out, she'll be pissed and you'll lose her. This is actually a good situation because you don't have to think "does she want a relationship, doesn't she want a relationship" even if she's sending signals both ways. This because if she really wants to get serious in the future she's usually going to date you retroactively to look more like a "good girl"...she'll start talking to her brother about you being cute or whatever and you two possibly starting to date/get to know one another. :crackup:

If she starts doing that, she's covering her tracks and really wants gf/bf. If she doesn't, treat it just like a permanent FB and don't ever indicate you see it as any more than that.
 
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