"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your best opnion opener...

HOMERSIMSON

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Give me your best, these work great..heres mine for this weekend..

do you think prince william is cute? would u date him? what if he was a plumber instead of a prince? then would you date him? You got up at 6 am to watch the wedding didnt you!! i know it

also i like the.....ladies can i get an opinion.. my best friends girlfriend kissed me when she was drunk should i tell him or just let it go?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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vatoloco

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"nice shoes wanna fuck?"

Enough said. :D
 

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Being natural is, in my opinion, the best way to 'open'. Make a comment about the place/activity you're at, or a person nearby, or something about HER. Pickup lines (or 'openers') are lame/boring and most women, in my mind, would prefer a confident guy who strikes up a natural, interesting (funny always helps) conversation with them.
 

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my friend was tellin me not to comment on her looks. like sayin youre adorable i had to meet your.. or nice dress... he said this isnt good.. what do yall think?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JdelaSilviera

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IMO opinion openers are totally retarded, it´s really ridiculous because the girl knows you don´t want her opinion... just go direct
 

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My best opinion opener is "Do you think I'm attractive?"
 
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