idontkno171
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I know you guys got some good stories. Lets brag about um now. I need some new ones anyway.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your best opener?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
idontkno171
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I thought the trick was to say something else that makes her see you as a higher valued person and when you've done this right, they ask for your name?
Idk, asking for their name gives them the control.
But w/e works.
Idk, asking for their name gives them the control.
But w/e works.
Quiksilver
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"hey, Im gonna borrow you for a minute"
You don't really need an opener, other than the casual "Hey, whats up?"
I tend to say an opener based on a girl's facial expression at the time and I make assumptions based on how she looks. For example, if you see a girl and she looks extremely happy, I would say: "Hey, you look extremely happy today, what's going on?!" OR "Hey, you look a little down, what's up?"
It doesn't really matter what you say, just ensure that your opener does not allow her to say simple "Yes" or "No" answers, and you are in!
I tend to say an opener based on a girl's facial expression at the time and I make assumptions based on how she looks. For example, if you see a girl and she looks extremely happy, I would say: "Hey, you look extremely happy today, what's going on?!" OR "Hey, you look a little down, what's up?"
It doesn't really matter what you say, just ensure that your opener does not allow her to say simple "Yes" or "No" answers, and you are in!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"Hi, my name is X, what's your's?"
"Hey how you going"
Really all you need.
Often I might comment on a girl body language like. "You look bored, let me cheer you up" and if I know her a bit I might tickle her or something.
"Hey how you going"
Really all you need.
Often I might comment on a girl body language like. "You look bored, let me cheer you up" and if I know her a bit I might tickle her or something.
Daddy The Pimp
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i dont think name exchange it perfect opener ..
Just "Wooooohoooo" is better ( mehow's opener ) than exchanging names .
Saying " hi im x , whats ur name " will put u on the list of all losers that hit on her all the night ..
If ur PUA/DJ u gotta be different .
Peace
Just "Wooooohoooo" is better ( mehow's opener ) than exchanging names .
Saying " hi im x , whats ur name " will put u on the list of all losers that hit on her all the night ..
If ur PUA/DJ u gotta be different .
Peace