"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your best move to go to when escalating

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This thread is dedicated to your best go to move(s) when escalating with a plate.

We all have different styles and pick up on different cues to ramp the sexual tension. I think this thread will beneift some on the noobies as well refresh our state of mind for the veterans here on SoSuave.

So, I'm asking you SS..what is your best move?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Start with friendly shoulder touches/pokes, work towards knees, then a bit further up onto the thigh. Hi-fives and hand holds are a good way to get started.

If I agree with something, I will often say something goofy and put my hand up for a high-five. It is something I tend to do with anyone, just part of my personality.

After the high-five, see how quickly she separates from your hand. Does she slide down, or grab onto your hand? GOOD!
Or does she bounce off your hand? BAD! Needs more work!
 

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A woman who want's to get f*cked will let you.

I know the competition is STIFF.. but if you get a hard d*ck from her looks then STICK IT IN.
 

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Doing nothing, turns them on the best...so my best move is to act like a rock!:p
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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