"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Desdinova

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Just a question and an opportunity to brag, what is the best part of your game? Now, I don't mean Neg Hits, nor ****y/funny. I want to know is where do you get your best results? Are you good at getting women in bed in a short period of time? Getting numbers under two minutes?

Mine has to be getting the first kiss. It's always guaranteed for me by the end of the first date. I never have to worry about it because it's always automatic.

The latest for getting that first kiss is probably the end of the first date. It's usually earlier, like after the first meeting and number close, before there is an actual date to speak of.

As my game kept improving, the first kiss kept coming sooner. I'd start chatting up some woman, and within 30 minutes, I'd be making out with her. I couldn't count how many nameless women I've made out with. I didn't have to number close, nor set up a date to get that first kiss.

So, what are your best game results?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jariel

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I suppose my strength is in the initial attraction stage and "getting my foot in the door" so to speak. A lot is probably due to my appearance (looks, height, dress + physique), but in recent months I believe I've started to radiate confidence to go along with it and that's a winning formula.


Desdinova: The first kiss is one of my weakest points and where I lose most opportunities so any narratives or advice on your experiences would be appreciated. Btw do you wait until you're in private before you go for the first kiss or are you happy making out in a bar, street etc?
 

ethnomethodologist

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I'm best at indirect game, as in walking down a hall and having guys calling me over, asking for "whattups" and give me nods, and having girls on the other drooling over me, staring, and saying just barely loud enough for me to hear "Jaaaay".

I am horrible once of I've got both guys and girls together though, I give out way too many chances for guys to AMOG me.
 

Desdinova

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Btw do you wait until you're in private before you go for the first kiss or are you happy making out in a bar, street etc?
Wherever I happen to be :)

One of the things I do is to initiate kino and pull out the c/f ASAP. It breaks down the barriers very quickly. A pat on the head saying "aww, poor baby" or "good girl" opens up for her to become comfortable around me. Breaking down those barriers ASAP will help things progress faster.

Also, I never have to initiate the first kiss. The woman does it all.
 
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