"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your Attention Please

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stevera004

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I can see the 'wise one' is still here ... get your attention somewhere else please ! Maybe a myspace page, or some online dating accounts. Post some pictures of yourself (from 10 years ago) and have at it. But, your personal life is boring to us; we don't care. We aren't your female social circle and don't care to be, guys only listen to this bull**** if there is a pu$$y attached.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tmpgstx

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And the last time you sought attention as a woman was when? I'm telling it exactly as it is. All those women who have boyfriends aren't flirting or dressing sexy to REALLY get the attention of random men. It is always, ALWAYS about ONE man. It's to get her boyfriend or husband jealous by showing him other men find her attractive. This is UNIVERSAL. It looks like it's about other men, but it's not. Even if the boyfriend or husband is not there to see for himself....she goes right back and tells him. How many times has a guy's girlfriend or wife told him about some guy hitting on her? She does that because she thinks he will pay more attention to her. That's what she wants. And yes, even single women at bars have one target.
This does hold water (and alot i might add). I've experienced this several times where the girl was seeking my attention and unbenounced to me, only to find out she had a boyfriend that wasn't giving her attention or that she and her bf broke up but after some time, she wanted to get back together with him (once she knew he wanted her back).

If it isn't about one guy then she just gets attention by having sex with many guys. She is not LTR material by any means. Even in these instances it isn't so much about attention as it is just about having sex as if it were like a drug. These are the girls that have major (with a capital M) insecurities that go to this level. Some may do it for a short time (just having fun) and others longer term as in years.
 

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Originally posted by stevera004
I can see the 'wise one' is still here ... get your attention somewhere else please ! Maybe a myspace page, or some online dating accounts. Post some pictures of yourself (from 10 years ago) and have at it. But, your personal life is boring to us; we don't care. We aren't your female social circle and don't care to be, guys only listen to this bull**** if there is a pu$$y attached.
I don't want attention, you idiot. I simply want common courtesy and respect as a long time member of this forum. I am not even remotely interested in in any of the men here in any way beyond wanting to offer my input and help. Now that we've cleared that up, let's get back on topic rather than continue to flame bait me, shall we...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I don't want attention, you idiot.
OBVIOUSLY YOU DO or else you wouldn't post here.

Originally posted by Wyldfire
I simply want common courtesy and respect as a long time member of this forum.
This is the MATURE MAN's forum. Can you not fvcking read? No, apparently you can't so let me explain it to you:

SHOW US SOME FVCKING COURTESY AND RESPECT AND NEVER POST ON THIS FORUM AGAIN.

Are you a male over 25? No? THEN DON'T FVCKING POST HERE YOU DUMB CVNT.

Can you understand that? Do I need to explain it again or do you get it?

Originally posted by Wyldfire
I am not even remotely interested in in any of the men here in any way beyond wanting to offer my input and help. Now that we've cleared that up, let's get back on topic rather than continue to flame bait me, shall we...
You don't want to help anyone, you just want to preach your bullsh!t.

Allen was too nice by only giving you a one week time-out, he should have just banned your azz.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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OK, thread closed. I started it, I'll end it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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