"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Archaic

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Its true, we all are, everyone in the world. Give me one person that isnt Frusterated with life, try, everyone is constantly striving to become greater, to get more women, money, fame, whatever their ambitions are. Think about it, the biggest football star at your school probably wishes he was at a different school, with more partying, near the beach or something. We are all frusterated. When you get a steady girlfriend, you will want a hotter one, if you get a hot girlfriend, you will want a wild one. So you know what you do? Stop prolonging your happiness, be happy now. That is what TAKING THINGS FOR GRANTED is, not appreciating your current situation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LoL, your topic grabbed my attention , but it seems you made a truthfull meaning out of your post.
 

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Be happy now, but never be content. Being content is deluding yourself into believing that everything is the way you would like it, when in fact it is not.

If there are things you want changed, change them. If you have a hot girl but want one better in bed, go get her.

Stagnation only leads to regret.
 

Fender

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Yes, but sometimes, the only way to achieve the nirvana of happiness is to be content.

Cuz happiness doesn't come from outside, for the most part, it comes from within.

Do what you love and you will love your life. Simple.

-peace-
 

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This probably won't make sense unless you're into psychology but The AFC in all of us is analogous to Freud's Superego...So I'd have to agree. We're all socially conditioned to play the "who wants to be the biggest AFC" game...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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