It's been about 3-4 weeks that I like this girl and I keep screwing up with her. So yesterday we went out to the club. There was 5 of us, 2 guys and 3 girls. We where on the dance floor the whole time I tryed dancing with her a few time's she didnt want to. I talked to her best friend who's a guy he said that she liked me until today when I yelled at her friend in caffeteria. Her friend was making fun of me she thought it was funny if I started my own cab company because I don't drive but I always take cabs. So i tripped out at her it wasn't pretty. None the less I grabbed her and took her away from them and asked her if she was mad at me about today and she said it wasn't cool. I apologised and explained my self why it was like that and that I wasn't really in a good mood and just happend that she started making fun of me at a bad time. Anyways through out the night she would check if I am looking at her but it was never more then 2-3 seconds eye contact. The monkey that I am I was staring at her every time. So through out the night I would leave them and go see my other friends. One point she walked right by me and didn't say anything. I went to go talk to my friend who you can say is an alpha-male. He's about 30 and very successful with girls. He told me to stay away from her because she's trouble and he has been watching her and she know's too many guys. He kept telling me to forget about her and to find some girl but he realised that this girl had me whipped and asked me if I really wanted her back and to take control back between us. I was like yeaaah I definetly do I put alot of time into her. He tells me the following: "Go up to her and be like I am leaving, I dont think we should talk anymore..." and just leave. So I have been MIA from where they are dancing about half an hour and I went back to her and she was leaning on the table and dancing just u know waiting for me. As I am approaching her some black dude beats me to her but none the less i just pulled her and told her listen I am gonna go and I dont think we should talk anymore. Right away she's like WHY?? I just turned around and started walking to my friend. It was really crowded and I run into an old friend of mine and I had to get he's number. So I stopped infront of him told him I need he's number she was right behind me. I got he's number she starts pulling my arm and says WHY Whats your problem? I just something like I dont know or I dont want wanna talk cant remember. Walking back towards my friend he's in my eye sight I have a big smile on my face but she can't see it. So she pulls my arm again this time really hard and it hurt. So I turned around and i am like YO WHATS YOUR PROBLEM? She lets go and tell's me "Fuuck you" and gives me the finger. I stood next to my friend and she's talking to her guy friend that came with us they are both confused. Me and my friend start walking to coat check and run into her she was talking to some brown guy but I didnt really wanna look at her. My friend tell's me later that it looked like she was wiping tears off her face. I couldn't confirm it cause I didn't wanna look at her so me and him got our jackets back and came back up stairs. I started talking to some other girl i got her number and we leave again and the girl is staring at me and I just leave. An hour later I get a phone call from her guy friend and not her and I didn't wanna pick up.
All I wanted to do with this is take control back do you think it's going to work?
All I wanted to do with this is take control back do you think it's going to work?
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