Your 40s and online dating

[evan12]

the most profile that get me responses is the profile with very blurry picture and small , nothing from myself is showing clear except the background , the secret was I gave impression I am a bad ass .
the lesson I learned is women look for a real man (biological most aggressive male ) .
I showed my profile to my friend and he couldnt explain how such stupid profile get all responses , I told him simply , just show indirectly you are a bad ass .

 

[corrector]

the most profile that get me responses is the profile with very blurry picture and small , nothing from myself is showing clear except the background , the secret was I gave impression I am a bad ass .
the lesson I learned is women look for a real man (biological most aggressive male ) .
I showed my profile to my friend and he couldnt explain how such stupid profile get all responses , I told him simply , just show indirectly you are a bad ass .

So, you are showing you are a bad ass by having an unfocused main shot profile and clear back-ground to the point you are very blurry and you feel that type of pic gave you allot of responses?

Wow. What type of quality of girls do you pick up?

 

[Stagger Lee]

the most profile that get me responses is the profile with very blurry picture and small , nothing from myself is showing clear except the background , the secret was I gave impression I am a bad ass .
the lesson I learned is women look for a real man (biological most aggressive male ) .
I showed my profile to my friend and he couldnt explain how such stupid profile get all responses , I told him simply , just show indirectly you are a bad ass .

Maybe it's a simple matter of you look better with a blurred pic than a sharply focused one.

This OKcupid study illustrates the point success in online dating is about attractiveness of the pic http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/.

In this thread some people say "If you are at least average to above average looks, then you'll do good with the right personality/game.." OK but the problem is very few guys are considered by women average or better, less than 20%.

As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh.

So apparently you have to be in the top 20% of men just to be considered at least average or better. Whereas men rated women on a normal bell curve.

For instance, the most attractive guys get 11× the messages the lowest-rated do. The medium-rated get about 4×.

So the above "average or better" attractive guys (top 20%) get 4-11x as the lowest rated (majority of men). And most likely these messages are more meaningful and from more attractive girls.

 

[evan12]

So, you are showing you are a bad ass by having an unfocused main shot profile and clear back-ground to the point you are very blurry and you feel that type of pic gave you allot of responses?

I didnt explain
The picture show I am playing pool , but it is very small to give any details about my face .
the profile written by some one who look like bad ass and careless .
So it is combination between profile picture and the content of profile .

Wow. What type of quality of girls do you pick up?

lol, good luck to find a quality girl online .online dating is just for fun in 95% of cases, serious women pick one guy and delete their profile .