"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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your 2cents on prom invite...

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Demosthoness

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Hey all, I've been lurking in these forums for quite a while, and I have to say I've grown to have a lot of respect for (most of) you. As such, I was wondering if ye might be willin' to give me some feedback on the following method of asking a girl to prom.

2 origami rose heads, spraypainted (very artfully if I do say so myself) yellow, taped on either side of a printed artwork of a pencil sketch rose, with the following words underneath it:

Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
My spray paint is yellow...
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...will you go to Prom with me?

I'm goin for the quirky vaguely funny route since I feel thats most likely the quality that she likes in me (as of this posting I've built up a nice repoir w/ her, and the word on the street(read: halls) is that she is waiting for me to ask her)

thoughts? Comments? Monkeys?

Thanks

-RB
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Incog

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If she's waiting for you to ask her, it doesn't really matter how. That way is fine.

If she's not, though, then I wouldn't advise that route. The straight up, confident approach would fit better.

Since you say she is supposedly waiting for you to do it, go with your plan.
 
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Touchout

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Sounds like you already made your mind up on what you want to do and are just looking for reassurance about it. Sure, it's a good idea, you might get her to laugh, and since she likes you anyway it really doesn't matter how you ask her.
 
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Demosthoness

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good call, touch. anywho, i asked, she said yes, score one for demo!

thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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good work. keep us updated
 
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