"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your 2008 fears and goals??

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Hi everybody!

Answering these two questions would mean a lot to me:


:up: 1. What is your 2008 biggest goal when it comes to women, seduction and attraction?

:down: 2. What is your 2008 biggest fear or frustration regarding women, seduction and attraction?

Thanks in advance EVERYONE!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. get a ****ing girlfriend and make more ****ing friends because im sick and tired of going to ****ing school/work and then come home and do **** for the rest of the day.

2. 2008 will end up just like 2007, it sucked major ass.
 
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"My biggest fear is that I will run out of women."

Alright - You mean not meeting any girls or running OUT of girls (that is... if you've met them all ;-) )?


"1. get a ****ing girlfriend and make more ****ing friends because im sick and tired of going to ****ing school/work and then come home and do **** for the rest of the day."

Man I can see that you're frustrated, but that's cool. most people ignore the fact that they don't have friends or girls and just go on with their life. So, do you have any idea of where to start? Do you have any answer to why you're short of friends and girls? Is it a lack of motivation to meet people ... or what is it? Do you have any idea? I'd love to help!


"I fear I will give in to fear."

As in lack of confidence to approaching and failure? :)



Cool guys, these answers means a lot to me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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