"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Younger Women vs Older Women

Freddy1

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What are the pros and cons?
What do you prefer and why?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It would help to know your age. Because if you're say 21, then we'd be discussing the difference between 18yr olds and 25yr olds. But if you're closer to 30, then we'd be discussing an entirely different class of women.
 

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Old = stretch marks, wrinkles, more body fat, and more baggage like kids and psycho ex BFs and husbands.

Young = hot, but incessant giggling and extreme shallowness balances out the hotness. Plus, some 19-21 y/o women are only 'not fat yet.' By the time they hit their late 20's, you can start to see who hits the gym and who does not.
 

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always date young chicks.........u can date old chicks when u are old..............give me an inexperienced young girl over a used up turkey neck older chick anytime...
 

Hitman10000

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If you and the girl are both at similar "mature" stage in life, then it will work out no matter what.

Obviously a grandma who is ready to die should not marry some dude who just moved out from his parents. Neither should a guy who has completely settled, owned his business, home, etc should settle with an immature 21 year old girl. Oh, I hear all these old guys flaming this late 20s guy right now. Trust me on this, you're her daddy and not her equal. If you want to be someone's daddy or son, go ahead. I want someone equal on my terms and that to me makes me more mature than the old dude jostling for some teenage honey.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zerocelcius

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I differ here! If you are talking a GF go younger. It is more natural and works better...for the most part! Age ='s leader...and a real man should take the Lead.

If you are talking some freaky learn something new Hot~ Class is In Sex Fest!!
Older All The Way!!!

Yes Mam! Whoooo Hooooo! Crack That whip!:yes:
 
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