drakeisfire
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It's obvious as to why I posted this on this forum.
I don't mean in regards to a career, money, or any of that; in fact, I don't even mean anything in regards to women because I do believe that a lot of men do become more attractive to women as they get older.
It is something I can't pinpoint exactly but it keeps me depressed sometimes when I think of it.
It's like I see some young guys who are actually in their prime: handsome, charismatic, in great shape, socially well connected, and from a wealthy upbringing. I see these guys go out to bars with their crowd of friends which include a mix of their bros as well as some hot girls.
Even back in my school days I saw it with house parties of hot girls and stuff that got posted on social media.
My problem is, I feel like even if I hit my stride in my 30s, I won't get to experience THAT.
Like I don't want to be "mature" when I never had a chance to be immature and have fun in the first place.
I see older guys and the vast majority of them I want to be nothing like.
It is as if once you are over 30, you have to be "formal" and kind of boring.
Like a 30 year old guy in his peak in life cannot experience the game the same way as a 20 year old guy at his peak can.
It isn't even exclusively about girls.
I just can't help but think that what I am missing with social life I won't be able to get as I get older.
The hot girls would have moved on from that, younger guys would have matured from that, and the people leftover would hardly be the ones anyone wants to have that sort of fun with.
Like, there is no 30-something version of that sort of life.
Women are past their prime and have put their fun days behind them.
Cool guy friends are hard to come across if not just barely existent.
Everyone has "moved on" to family, kids, and that sort of a life and you're the odd one all on your own.
Like even if you get laid and get a hot girl, it won't feel the same as belonging to that sort of a crowd because it seems like that sort of a crowd doesn't even exist as you get older.
Even if you get rich but are in your 30s, you can't just go out sleeping with random women, partying with them, and living that sort of a life because you have a livelihood to protect.
I don't mean in regards to a career, money, or any of that; in fact, I don't even mean anything in regards to women because I do believe that a lot of men do become more attractive to women as they get older.
It is something I can't pinpoint exactly but it keeps me depressed sometimes when I think of it.
It's like I see some young guys who are actually in their prime: handsome, charismatic, in great shape, socially well connected, and from a wealthy upbringing. I see these guys go out to bars with their crowd of friends which include a mix of their bros as well as some hot girls.
Even back in my school days I saw it with house parties of hot girls and stuff that got posted on social media.
My problem is, I feel like even if I hit my stride in my 30s, I won't get to experience THAT.
Like I don't want to be "mature" when I never had a chance to be immature and have fun in the first place.
I see older guys and the vast majority of them I want to be nothing like.
It is as if once you are over 30, you have to be "formal" and kind of boring.
Like a 30 year old guy in his peak in life cannot experience the game the same way as a 20 year old guy at his peak can.
It isn't even exclusively about girls.
I just can't help but think that what I am missing with social life I won't be able to get as I get older.
The hot girls would have moved on from that, younger guys would have matured from that, and the people leftover would hardly be the ones anyone wants to have that sort of fun with.
Like, there is no 30-something version of that sort of life.
Women are past their prime and have put their fun days behind them.
Cool guy friends are hard to come across if not just barely existent.
Everyone has "moved on" to family, kids, and that sort of a life and you're the odd one all on your own.
Like even if you get laid and get a hot girl, it won't feel the same as belonging to that sort of a crowd because it seems like that sort of a crowd doesn't even exist as you get older.
Even if you get rich but are in your 30s, you can't just go out sleeping with random women, partying with them, and living that sort of a life because you have a livelihood to protect.
