Younger girls

[GS750]

Have a question for my more mature brethren, mostly guys in their 30's+. A girl on match hit me up, we've messaged back and forth 3-4 times, I got the #. Okay so she's 20, will be 21 in May and is a full time college student. She works too. I'd say a HB7, really cute. I'm 33, I'll be 34 in June. She wants to meet. I live a few hours away from her too. I've never really dated/hooked up with anyone more than a few years younger than me. Is a 13 year age gap a little much? Any advice on dealing with girls that are much younger than you? Especially girls in their early 20's when you're 30+. She knows I'm a cop...maybe she's got a cop fetish haha. Thanks.

GS

 

[CrimsonPanther]

relax, my new gf is 16 (legal age here), and she thinks i am THE SHEET. you really don't have to do anything just be your mature self, and don't try to act like teens.
have fun with her, it is what she also wants.

 

[Desdinova]

relax, my new gf is 16 (legal age here)

Where the hell do you live???

Also, I had enough difficulty dating a 19 year old last fall, never mind a 16 year old.

Is a 13 year age gap a little much?

Who the hell cares? It's a number. If you two click, then have fun!

Any advice on dealing with girls that are much younger than you?

Yes. Game as usual. A younger woman doesn't mean "game differently". Whatever you're doing is working, so why stray from it?

 

[Die Hard]

Yep, just do what you always do, don't try to "adapt" your behavior in an effort to be a better "fit" to her or anything. That will only work contrarily!

relax, my new gf is 16 (legal age here), and she thinks i am THE SHEET.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

In the future you might want to say: younger women. Just sayin.

It all depends what you can handle and what her maturity level is. I've dated some younger chicks, but most of them have been mature for their age.

 

[GS750]

Yeah..true. She's a woman, not a girl. Point taken.

 

[zekko]

Where the hell do you live???

More 16 year olds are legal than not.

http://www.webistry.net/jan/consent.html

But yeah, 16 sounds a little immature. Depends on the girl though. Hey, if they're happy I have no problem with it.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

Where the hell do you live???

in europe
in hungary, the age of consent is 14 yo.
and about maturity... no one ereally cares, i don't wanna wife them up lol, if they have the instruments and they are willing to use them with me, i'm game.

and the fun thing with teens is that the boys their age are mostly losers (no offense, i was the same in my teens), so a guy above 25, with a stable job, a house of his own, a car projects independence itself. and they see independence as a drug (them living at parents, have rules, school etc)

when they are with you, they feel like a woman instead of a girl. they get an euphoric feeling, i get sex with girls who are still the naive innocent and HONEST girls, a woman is supposed to be (they eventually grow out of it). they really do admire you. so everybody wins. until the parents find out... but there were parents who were down with it "as long as i am serious about their daughter". and i am. as opposed to some crazy feminazis, i actually respect the woman i f*ck, and make her feel good with me.

 

[origin138]

I just moved to CO. Legal age of consent is 15? Hmmm, the possibilities!

 

[Bokanovsky]

Where the hell do you live???

16 is legal in Canada, Australia, Europe and pretty much every place outside of the U.S. You Americans are a strange bunch. On the one hand, you've got the world's largest and most depraved pornographic industry. On the other hand, you put people in jail for having consensual sex with women who are in their sexual prime.

 

[Married Buried]

This has first night lay written all over it. Young girls are sluts these days. I met one from match who was 21, on break from college, told me her boyfriend is a "worry wart" and answered his texts in my bed. 1st date. They love to smoke weed to, but you are a cop, doubt that's going to happen.

It was a short romance but as long as you don't turn her off I think you will tap. Also with these young chics if you don't tap early on the 1st date you probably won't tap at all.

 

[zekko]

16 is legal in Canada, Australia, Europe and pretty much every place outside of the U.S. You Americans are a strange bunch. On the one hand, you've got the world's largest and most depraved pornographic industry. On the other hand, you put people in jail for having consensual sex with women who are in their sexual prime.

If you check out the link I posted back in post #7, you will see that in most states the age of consent is 16. But in some states, like California, it's 18.

I remember a discussion here awhile back about a California teacher in his 30s who supposedly waited until a female student was 18, then they had sex and announced their affair. People were still screaming for him to be locked up though, because he was a teacher, because of the age difference, and because they figured he must have been "grooming" her before she was 18. The irony of the situation was if he had just been over the border in Nevada (where the age of consent is 16) he would have been perfectly fine. But since he was in California they wanted to string him up.

Anyway, you're right about the USA. It's a strange mix of values, traditions, vices, and hypocricies. It's hard to deny that a girl has reached sexual maturity when it's clear she is ready biologically.

 

[NewToTheGame]

I've posted about younger women before, so I'll keep this short.

I have slept with quite a few of them. 15 (23 or less) in the last 2 years. Only 6s/7s/8s/9s. I'm 35.

(For the most part) they are flighty, flakey, and hyper-emotional. They are also a lot of fun.

The thing I have observed is the problem being an older guy is this: these women are in their sexual prime. The amount of attention these chicks get is almost unimaginable. Facebook, snapchat, twitter, instagram, tindr, etc. But they will see a stable, older guy--that still likes to have fun--as something to go after, something of value.

On the other hand, they get pressure constantly from friends, other dudes, and society in general to continue to play around and not settle down. Often these women will try to lock you down while still playing the field themselves.

So there is a natural tension in these types of situations. Between settling down and playing around.

Best advice I can give is to not take them too seriously. Which helps in two ways: One, a younger chick doesn't want a super-serious older dude. She is still gonna want to have fun in a relationship. Two, she is gonna eventually bring drama and emotionally-fueled behavior to your life. Its inevitable. Staying relaxed about this is the only way to handle it.

As soon as you feel that your life is starting to revolve around their unpredictable behavior, you are in for a world of pain. Its happened to me a few times. And it was very unpleasant. But it was a great learning experience and I don't regret any of it.

 

[GS750]

I've posted about younger women before, so I'll keep this short.

I have slept with quite a few of them. 15 (23 or less) in the last 2 years. Only 6s/7s/8s/9s. I'm 35.

(For the most part) they are flighty, flakey, and hyper-emotional. They are also a lot of fun.

The thing I have observed is the problem being an older guy is this: these women are in their sexual prime. The amount of attention these chicks get is almost unimaginable. Facebook, snapchat, twitter, instagram, tindr, etc. But they will see a stable, older guy--that still likes to have fun--as something to go after, something of value.

On the other hand, they get pressure constantly from friends, other dudes, and society in general to continue to play around and not settle down. Often these women will try to lock you down while still playing the field themselves.

So there is a natural tension in these types of situations. Between settling down and playing around.

Best advice I can give is to not take them too seriously. Which helps in two ways: One, a younger chick doesn't want a super-serious older dude. She is still gonna want to have fun in a relationship. Two, she is gonna eventually bring drama and emotionally-fueled behavior to your life. Its inevitable. Staying relaxed about this is the only way to handle it.

As soon as you feel that your life is starting to revolve around their unpredictable behavior, you are in for a world of pain. Its happened to me a few times. And it was very unpleasant. But it was a great learning experience and I don't regret any of it.

Great advice here, and thanks to everyone for chiming in.