"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Younger girls focus more on looks.

snobby

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It seems to me that younger girls in about the age of 13-15-16 appear to care more on a guy's looks than older women. Is what I think.

What do you guys think of this? (sorry if this was already posted)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DonMEgaHoss

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I dont care about 13 year olds but its true to there 20's I would say. Looks do matter to younger women, Me as an example. When I was 15, 16 I was pudgy and had a little acne. I didnt get the time of day from chicks. Now I get all sort of signs of interest from chicks.. Cause Im tall and lean and sizzlean' like fine cusine'
 

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Fooguo said:
At 25 years old what do you care what 13-15 year old girls like?
Because when I used be at that age I was a real dumbass when it came to girls, and I WAS indeed uglier as a teen. And now I was just wondering that I got more success whether it's because I changed some things on my appearance or because I got more game. :p

Just something that interests me anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Looks are important to any age, to both men and women, but your looks will not keep a girl around, need to keep up with your style and grace and keep working the C&F and do not get lazy and start slacking off. Because your pretty face can be replaced.
 

DonMEgaHoss

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when I used be at that age I was a real dumbass when it came to girls, and I WAS indeed uglier as a teen. And now I was just wondering that I got more success whether it's because I changed some things on my appearance or because I got more game.
Answer: *Long dramatic drum roll* most likely both

It was the same with me dude. I was uglier as a teen.. .well I still am a teen nineteen so... fudge it you get where Im going at.
 

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I'll keep the comments I had to further expand my little known reputation as SamePedo (hint hint!)
 

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i've noticed girls who are 18 & 19 years old tend to place emphasis on looks and haven't reached that "so what do you do?" point yet.
 

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Women approaching 30

I'm 29.

Women only start going for "other" things when they get ready to settle down. Normally around 30 however if you're a 30 year old guy you've passed the whole awkward stage of life and now it's actually quite easy to pull 20-25 year olds and their much nicer to ****, nothing has dropped yet.

Enjoy the next 5->10 years and settle down with a bird when you're approaching 40 who is 10 years younger.

Never date a 30 year old women if you're 30 unless you've been dating for a LONG time and it's true love. Why should you? Women have a much earlier shelf life and if you do she will hit the wall and you will just end up breaking up with her.

I hate to be brutal but it's true and women only have themselves to blame for not giving guys their own age a chance when they're younger and sticking with them and enjoying the benefits latter in life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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totally true. I am no Brad Pitt, but I have been much more successful now than I was two to three years ago. 13-16 year olds do gudge, and often too much, by looks.

I don't hit much on 15 year olds or younger though.
 

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15 and your 18 now just sounds sketchy though its only three years difference.
buth like 16 and 19 doesnt sound as bad though so I could bang a 16 year old and would get it too bad.
 

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Firstly, I think you guys are some sick fvcks for even wondering what under age women think. This isn't the highschool forum.

Secondly, looks matter at any age. I agree they become less important to women as they get older, but don't kid yourself into thinking they don't count. For any relationship to occur, you have to meet a woman's minimum standards on looks. If you're a great guy, you're rich, and have a wonderful personality, none of that will matter if you don't meet the "Minimum looks" standard.
 
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