"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Younger girl?

B-Real

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I'm in college at a small university. I moved here about 4 months ago. I've just been through one semester. I gotta little job at a resteraunt that doesn't pay that much, but it gets me through alright.

At this little resteraunt their works a girl. This girl is only 17. She is very pretty and smart. BUT.. she is still in high school. I can tell that she is intersted in me over the rest of the guys that work there.

Now I'm not trying to get serious at all with this girl. I just think that it might be kinda fun to always have one to fall back on when those lonely nights come rolling around like they normally do.

I'm still looking and flirting with the girls at the university and will be more serious with those.

My question is.. will hooking up with this younger girl ruin my chances at all with other girls. I mean I don't know what she is looking for in a guy (note: she is still in high school) but I just want someone that might wanna come over and watch a movie once in a while when I'm not busy macking on the girls at the bar or studying.

I normally would never think of wasting my time on someone so young. And I'm not no pedifile or anything like that so don't start with the remarks.

Do these thoughts make me look bad?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yes, you are pure evil for admiring a girl 4 years younger than you!!:rolleyes:

Is it against the law? Check your state/country statutes!!

A girl +20 years younger than me is not out of my purview!!! You'll understand as you get older!!
 

Cremasta

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Go for it! Why not?

The only problem with 17yo girls is they can get pretty infatuated with you... just before they turn into leeches you can't get rid of.

Set out the groundrules at the start
 
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