Younger Girl, BLOW ME OFF!

[Stormblade]

Shes 17
Im 22
Its legal here

We were gonna go out, she was ready and willing. She hooks with her ex and I drop her, saying she disappointed me. She replies with, "You didnt expect we would go out! did You?!"
I was like aight peace, I gotta other girls to deal with...
We didnt talk for 3 weeks
She contacts me again
Wants to know how im doing and whatnot
I reply with im busy but catch me later
She contacts me again
I say im busy, just leaving, but try me online tomorrow
Anyway I want to try and get with her, how should I approach this.
During the 3 week interim she went out with and broke up with this other guy, the day after she contacts me.

 

[G_S]

Seems things didn't work out with the ex and now she wants you to fall back on. Why? To make him jealous perhaps? Lose this chick, she is not worth the nut that made her. If she really said something like, "You didnt expect we would go out! did You?!" You need to tell his chick to F off. Perfect opportunity to use her own works against her. She's a child for christ's sake! It should be a priveledge for HER to be in YOUR precence.

 

[drixsa]

"You didnt expect we would go out! did You?!"

NEXT that girl

she showed you some major disrespect and you should forget about that as fast as possible

 

[TesuqueRed]

At her age and game playing skills, she's probably ripe, ready and sucker for jerk behavior--guessing here, of course--so decide if you want to go there in order to, <cough>, go there...

I mention "going there" because I wouldn't consider dating her for any length of time as being a serious consideration (age 17, learning the game...) and LTR with her is a subject somewhere in the next universe.

It could be skills development time and trying on different personalities and seeing what works and who you are--now's the time for that. Try being a jerk, see if it works and if you like who you are. It probably will work to a point and you probably won't like who you are after awhile, but you will take away part of it that is very useful and can incorporate into a version of yourself that you prefer.

 

[sux2bu]

Originally posted by G_S
she is not worth the nut that made her.

Good one G_S!