Alright guys here's the lowdown: She is 18 Im 22
- Met a girl (HB9) through my cousin at his B-day party, a group of us went to the movies. First time that I met her. I was cracking jokes and had everyone laughing. Tried not to just single her out flirted with all the chicks. Must say it went well and we seemed to hit it off very well not bad for a first encounter. This was in January.
- Fast forward to July, saw her at my cousins grad party. There were a ton of people there but she spotted me from a distance as she was leaving (she just dropped by real quick) and gave me a wave and a big smile. I returned the favor and just left it at that, I was surprised she even remembered me.
- Here's were it gets interesting: she is a singer and I was asked through a mutual friend to plays drums for her for a show. Of course I agreed as I saw this as a golden opportunity. One other dudes in the band hit on her constantly, I kinda let him do his thing and crash and burn on his own lol. Anyway, me her pretty much have been meeting up for about week to practice and hang and really seem to get along great and have chemistry. Two days before the show it was just me and her and you could feel the nervous energy from her and I admit I was alittle nervous as well, but I stayed cool and things went fine. Fast forward to the day of the show and we spent about 4hrs together just me and her, getting food before the show and just talking and warming up. We talked about everything and anything, and I through in some kino throughout the whole time and she responded with a smile and was really giddy.
- Show went great and my cousin was talking to her on the phone (there best friends) and she heard me in the background I guess and was like "Is that your cousin!? Tell him he did great and that I said Hi"! We text sometimes about random ****, she is just cool and laid back, no drama.
- My problem is that she is leaving for college in like a week and Im not sure what to do. I mean I have only known her pretty much this week. Also, she is best friends with my cousin which could be a little awkward but I don't really care. So do you guys think I should just man up and ask her out before she leaves? And do you think I have any advantage/disadvantage being older? Thanks guys I appreciate it!
- Met a girl (HB9) through my cousin at his B-day party, a group of us went to the movies. First time that I met her. I was cracking jokes and had everyone laughing. Tried not to just single her out flirted with all the chicks. Must say it went well and we seemed to hit it off very well not bad for a first encounter. This was in January.
- Fast forward to July, saw her at my cousins grad party. There were a ton of people there but she spotted me from a distance as she was leaving (she just dropped by real quick) and gave me a wave and a big smile. I returned the favor and just left it at that, I was surprised she even remembered me.
- Here's were it gets interesting: she is a singer and I was asked through a mutual friend to plays drums for her for a show. Of course I agreed as I saw this as a golden opportunity. One other dudes in the band hit on her constantly, I kinda let him do his thing and crash and burn on his own lol. Anyway, me her pretty much have been meeting up for about week to practice and hang and really seem to get along great and have chemistry. Two days before the show it was just me and her and you could feel the nervous energy from her and I admit I was alittle nervous as well, but I stayed cool and things went fine. Fast forward to the day of the show and we spent about 4hrs together just me and her, getting food before the show and just talking and warming up. We talked about everything and anything, and I through in some kino throughout the whole time and she responded with a smile and was really giddy.
- Show went great and my cousin was talking to her on the phone (there best friends) and she heard me in the background I guess and was like "Is that your cousin!? Tell him he did great and that I said Hi"! We text sometimes about random ****, she is just cool and laid back, no drama.
- My problem is that she is leaving for college in like a week and Im not sure what to do. I mean I have only known her pretty much this week. Also, she is best friends with my cousin which could be a little awkward but I don't really care. So do you guys think I should just man up and ask her out before she leaves? And do you think I have any advantage/disadvantage being older? Thanks guys I appreciate it!
