Young women and daddy issues

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

jophil28

Master Don Juan

Jun 29, 2009

Jitterbug said:
jophil28, on the teachers thing, I found out that two of them are crazy and have given them the boots over the weekend.

Ha ha ! I bet they wanted to give you a detention, you naughty boy.

I have dated several teachers (and married one ). She was the only one fit to be in an adult relationship, but she was a PhD with a love of vino rosso.
The others were awful- BPDs HPDs, bossy arrogant, self important.
They become their job.

Pump those pedagogs, Jitter.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.