Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Young girls and the law

bigjohnson

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BuildingSomethingBig said:
Threads like this really make me ashamed to be browsing SoSuave.
Because obeying the law is sooo dirty baby. Yeah. :rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigjohnson said:
Because obeying the law is sooo dirty baby. Yeah. :rolleyes:
A bunch of creepos discussing loopholes to bang underage girls is disgusting. Plus, the OP is a troll on my ignore list.
 

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Its as if you DJs dont get hit on by young chicks, lol. I have young chicks looking at me all the time, and I can never know if they are legal or not. In Miami they all look hot, HS or college, its hard to tell the difference. Plus sometimes you get girls under 18 in college, such as 16????? Its unbelievable.
 

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banGbro said:
I heard Mexico is 12. I dont know if I would want to fvck a 12 year old.
This is probably the worst thing you could have said after starting a thread with, "I don't mean to sound creepy." Your creepiness just went up twice as much.

I'm with BuildingSomethingBig on this one. The question isn't, "Can you do it?" It's, "Why would you want to in the first place?"

I get annoyed with the immaturity of 19 year old girls. I won't even date that young anymore.
 

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Nexus Polaris said:
"Why would you want to in the first place?"
cause some girls beg for it.

For me the rule is, only to get involved in something like this, if the girl not only makes the first move, but picks you and does all the process, the man being totaly passiv, only warning about the emotional consequences, actually TALKING TO THE PARENTS about it, and being extremly cautious and tender.

Actually ALL the parents I talked to about this prefer their daughter to make first experience with a mature and centered man, than with a uncontrolled lad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do you have kids?

I'm a parent. If some older guy tries anything with my daughter while she's underage, that guy is going to jail.
 

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i have a daughter, she is 6 now.
So if your daughter comes up to you and asks you about this, would you lock her up?
Honestly I never slept with an underage girls, but I feel sorry for rejecting them. The parents were always on my side, as, like you say, I was not "trying anything". They actually excuse for the behaviour of their daughter and tried to get me to like their daughter. It was all just too much for me, but keep in mind, the world is not so simple.
So what would you do, if your daughter aged 15 runs crazy for a 30 year old and that guy is totaly passiv and extremly sympatic? And you witnessed that it was your daughter that picked him and made a move, while the man rejects.
Given that you dont think your daughter shouldnt have sex with 15 anyway. And why would you think a young boy who cant even handle a condom would be better for her?
 

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BuildingSomethingBig said:
A bunch of creepos discussing loopholes to bang underage girls is disgusting. Plus, the OP is a troll on my ignore list.
I don't see that - what I see is a discussion of what is precisely underage and how to not bang underage girls. How do you define "underage"? I let the applicable laws define what is legally underage personally, and that requires knowledge of the laws.

In times past what we would consider very young people were getting married and having kids, so we're really discussing a relative societal convention more than anything else. For me personally people under 25 or so tend to be pretty flakey and not worth the headache, but my personal preference wasn't the question.

The OP is a bit of a troll though, you have a point there. Maybe I should start using ignore for a few.
 
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