bigjohnson
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Because obeying the law is sooo dirty baby. Yeah.BuildingSomethingBig said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Young girls and the law
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
BuildingSomethingBig
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A bunch of creepos discussing loopholes to bang underage girls is disgusting. Plus, the OP is a troll on my ignore list.bigjohnson said:Because obeying the law is sooo dirty baby. Yeah.
Its as if you DJs dont get hit on by young chicks, lol. I have young chicks looking at me all the time, and I can never know if they are legal or not. In Miami they all look hot, HS or college, its hard to tell the difference. Plus sometimes you get girls under 18 in college, such as 16????? Its unbelievable.
Nexus Polaris
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This is probably the worst thing you could have said after starting a thread with, "I don't mean to sound creepy." Your creepiness just went up twice as much.banGbro said:
I'm with BuildingSomethingBig on this one. The question isn't, "Can you do it?" It's, "Why would you want to in the first place?"
I get annoyed with the immaturity of 19 year old girls. I won't even date that young anymore.
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cause some girls beg for it.Nexus Polaris said:
For me the rule is, only to get involved in something like this, if the girl not only makes the first move, but picks you and does all the process, the man being totaly passiv, only warning about the emotional consequences, actually TALKING TO THE PARENTS about it, and being extremly cautious and tender.
Actually ALL the parents I talked to about this prefer their daughter to make first experience with a mature and centered man, than with a uncontrolled lad.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Nexus Polaris
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Do you have kids?
I'm a parent. If some older guy tries anything with my daughter while she's underage, that guy is going to jail.
I'm a parent. If some older guy tries anything with my daughter while she's underage, that guy is going to jail.
Bevo
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i have a daughter, she is 6 now.
So if your daughter comes up to you and asks you about this, would you lock her up?
Honestly I never slept with an underage girls, but I feel sorry for rejecting them. The parents were always on my side, as, like you say, I was not "trying anything". They actually excuse for the behaviour of their daughter and tried to get me to like their daughter. It was all just too much for me, but keep in mind, the world is not so simple.
So what would you do, if your daughter aged 15 runs crazy for a 30 year old and that guy is totaly passiv and extremly sympatic? And you witnessed that it was your daughter that picked him and made a move, while the man rejects.
Given that you dont think your daughter shouldnt have sex with 15 anyway. And why would you think a young boy who cant even handle a condom would be better for her?
So if your daughter comes up to you and asks you about this, would you lock her up?
Honestly I never slept with an underage girls, but I feel sorry for rejecting them. The parents were always on my side, as, like you say, I was not "trying anything". They actually excuse for the behaviour of their daughter and tried to get me to like their daughter. It was all just too much for me, but keep in mind, the world is not so simple.
So what would you do, if your daughter aged 15 runs crazy for a 30 year old and that guy is totaly passiv and extremly sympatic? And you witnessed that it was your daughter that picked him and made a move, while the man rejects.
Given that you dont think your daughter shouldnt have sex with 15 anyway. And why would you think a young boy who cant even handle a condom would be better for her?
bigjohnson
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I don't see that - what I see is a discussion of what is precisely underage and how to not bang underage girls. How do you define "underage"? I let the applicable laws define what is legally underage personally, and that requires knowledge of the laws.BuildingSomethingBig said:
In times past what we would consider very young people were getting married and having kids, so we're really discussing a relative societal convention more than anything else. For me personally people under 25 or so tend to be pretty flakey and not worth the headache, but my personal preference wasn't the question.
The OP is a bit of a troll though, you have a point there. Maybe I should start using ignore for a few.