Ok I asked a girl out in work last week for dinner (bit formal I know should have said drink but there we are) ... I am 28 she is 21 .... FIRSTLY is that too age gap too big?
... I over heard the word pedophile mentioned between a conversation between her (the girl I asked out) and a jolly ex police officer who also works in the office ... she replyed "thats the second person that has said that ... thats a nasty word I dont like that word" .....
... it is now blatently all around the office now as she is telling people including an older collegue ...
... I am absolutly not bothered about the fact that I asked her out or the fact its around the office ...
... I am bothered that I didnt notice the age gap or saw it as an issue?!!??!
I am taking the fact that she told people as good sign, as she is using me asking her out as a way to demonstrate higher value with her collgues ... does this behavour make sence?
Anyway, my plan is just to ignore the issue until it blows over and becomes old news, continue to be ****y and funny with the other girls and guys and continue to ask other girls out in my social circles....
Bit of a brain dump, not a big issue in my life but comments greatfully recieved ....
... I over heard the word pedophile mentioned between a conversation between her (the girl I asked out) and a jolly ex police officer who also works in the office ... she replyed "thats the second person that has said that ... thats a nasty word I dont like that word" .....
... it is now blatently all around the office now as she is telling people including an older collegue ...
... I am absolutly not bothered about the fact that I asked her out or the fact its around the office ...
... I am bothered that I didnt notice the age gap or saw it as an issue?!!??!
I am taking the fact that she told people as good sign, as she is using me asking her out as a way to demonstrate higher value with her collgues ... does this behavour make sence?
Anyway, my plan is just to ignore the issue until it blows over and becomes old news, continue to be ****y and funny with the other girls and guys and continue to ask other girls out in my social circles....
Bit of a brain dump, not a big issue in my life but comments greatfully recieved ....