Young Brother on the Journey

[Amon Rob]

Alright, I'll try to summarize as best I can:

I'm an ex-Nice Guy, AFC, however you want to call it. I started looking at the DJ bible around six months ago when I was at rock-bottom. The posts by Pook really inspired me to devote myself to doing what I love in life, and I'm better for it. I don't treat women the same way (ie, kissing ass, Nice Guy S.O.P.). The problem is, now I've gone to a different side of the spectrum: I'm a complete a$$h*le, usually without trying to be.

It seems I can't open my mouth without saying something offensive. Sure, it used to be funny as hell, but now I'm starting to get worried. It's like everytime a girl even talks to me I start flashing back to how things used to be like, and I get super defensive and say whatever simply to shut them down. And this is not the kind of a$$h*le attitude that's successful: I get even less play than I used to. I want to have fun, damn it, this isn't who I am!

Positive: I don't NEED a girl anymore, although I do want one. Negative: I don't know how to find a balance between not being desperate, and being a woman-hater. If anyone's been here before, or at least has some idea as to what I'm talking about, hit me up. Peace.

 

[khash]

yea i have gone through same thing in the beginning. you are simply so pissed at them that you want to hate them. its your animalistic instincts at work...

dont be a woman hater...dont be a woman lover...never treat them like they are important...becayse they are not...they are just animals built around years of evolution....guys are animals too but with a different nature ...anything could happen with them!!! : they might cheat on you, they might start loving you like mad, they talk behind ur back, they might want to use you...they are tools lol, just have fun, look at everything as positive( including women) and learn.

This world is a jungle...you have to work really hard for sucess simply due to so many other ppl living ...but with a positive attitude towards it.

 

[Faca]

Don't hate women, only because you were a AFC and women might have rejected you in the past. Read somewhere on this site something like this: Women don't lie, it's just men that don't Listen..

If you understand attraction you'll see that women are being more logical.

When frustrated, go work out.. or take some boxing lessons. Do something with a lot of competition.. this works always for me.

 

[Amon Rob]

Thanks for the feedback, it sounds pretty dead-on. I'll do what I can, and hopefully things happen.