"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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youn girls vs old girls

8bit

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I have noticed something very puzzling. It is easier for me to attract younger and older girls than it is for me to attract girls my own age. I work at a place that allows me to come in contact with lots of people. I'm 19 and I notice that girls with an age difference of five years or alot of times are attracted to me. I don't feel like going to prison anytime soon, so dating an girl 14 years old is bad. Young girls like older guys, especially the ones that are nice and pay them attention. I treat each customer with respect and on an equal level, so I notice these types of girls will like me. The nice thing has never worked on girls my age.

As for older girls, I have noticed that they tend to like me because I'm a nice guy. Older women have had their share of jerks and want a nice guy.

I'm interested in other views about girls and their ages? Are there different ways of picking up girls of different ages? Not girls below 18.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tomatoes

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I agree about younger girls. They are easy to pull. I am 20 and aim at 17-22 year olds. I find older girls very hard to pull. I havent quite figured out why but im working on it.

Im currently working on a 22 year old. I am getting somewhere but the process is alot slower than that of younger girls.
 

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Originally posted by 8bit


I'm interested in other views about girls and their ages? Are there different ways of picking up girls of different ages? Not girls below 18.

I always was naturally more confident around girls who are slightly younger so it was easier to get them.

I think it's because i just feel more seasoned than them. It's kinda like being a junior or senior looking down on the clueless freshman and shaking your head.

That was mostly in college though. Now i'm almost 26 and a 24 year old i don't really view in my head as much different than i, though sometimes i can see the maturity difference a bit.
 

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Originally posted by 8bit
I have noticed something very puzzling. It is easier for me to attract younger and older girls than it is for me to attract girls my own age. I work at a place that allows me to come in contact with lots of people. I'm 19 and I notice that girls with an age difference of five years or alot of times are attracted to me. I don't feel like going to prison anytime soon, so dating an girl 14 years old is bad. Young girls like older guys, especially the ones that are nice and pay them attention. I treat each customer with respect and on an equal level, so I notice these types of girls will like me. The nice thing has never worked on girls my age.

As for older girls, I have noticed that they tend to like me because I'm a nice guy. Older women have had their share of jerks and want a nice guy.

I'm interested in other views about girls and their ages? Are there different ways of picking up girls of different ages? Not girls below 18.
Very True :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Adone

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I'm 18 and I accept everything from 14 (must look older) to 25 (must look younger).
 

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It's called the "maturity" factory. Most Girls tend to date guys that are "more" mature than they are as they see this as a stabilizing factor in their identity. And to tell you the truth, as a guy who is in his 20s, I would rather date a woman who is still girlie/feminine rather than date a career wise sex-in-the-city know it all. I mean, who wants to go out with someone that'll question your every move and call the shots making you feel like a worthless colostomy bag. I don't think it's age, but how feminine a girl can be. I've met and enjoyed the presence of a catty feminine girly 50 year old woman and showed inner-hatred hanging around a 20-30 year old college graduate talking all business like with me.
 

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Originally posted by Warlord
It's called the "maturity" factory. Most Girls tend to date guys that are "more" mature than they are as they see this as a stabilizing factor in their identity. And to tell you the truth, as a guy who is in his 20s, I would rather date a woman who is still girlie/feminine rather than date a career wise sex-in-the-city know it all. I mean, who wants to go out with someone that'll question your every move and call the shots making you feel like a worthless colostomy bag. I don't think it's age, but how feminine a girl can be. I've met and enjoyed the presence of a catty feminine girly 50 year old woman and showed inner-hatred hanging around a 20-30 year old college graduate talking all business like with me.
i agree, i've noticed this too. Whether a girl may be younger or older than you, girls in general prefer "mature" men.

Yes yes, younger girls tend to date guys older than them for their maturity/experience/knowledge factor. older women may tend to date younger guys for their so called 'fun/youth' factor.

as i rephrase the girl im dating "i hate dumb & immature guys"
 

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I havent had any experiences with older women, but I do know young girls get to like me faster and show affection more often than girls my age. I'm 21 and girls around my age (19-22) tend to play more games and dont really show a lot of affection until we're in a serious relationship. The youngest girls I talk to are 2 girls that i met on the net who are 15, they're friends (one introduced me to the other after talking for weeks) and both are crazy about me, but i'm not fond of going to the big house so im not planning to meet any of them offline (even thought they live less that 6 hours from me), at least until they're 18... then they can come and "take care of me".
 
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