"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CoRVeTTe6699

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how would you feel if you told your girlfriend of 4 months that you couldnt hang out with her friday night, and she told you Ok. and then later made plans to see her guy friends. ( and possibly drink with them)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i would be furious and turn totally AFC and ask her a million and one questions and give her a million and one reasons on why she should stay home, do nothing, watch TV and wait for me to get home and call her. in which SHE WILL pick up the phone and talk otherwise she is playing games, Screwing around on me and an AW

OR NOT...

i wouldn't care, I can't see her on friday for whatever reason, let her do her thing.
 
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alphawolfx

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lol @ christz

I've had both reactions, with the same girl.
 
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What do you expect her to do?

If her having guy friends is not cool fo you then move on. Otherwise deal.
 
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