"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You WONT succeed unless you FAIL

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starting at the age of 17, i got my first kiss (gf), b4 i was weird ugly and never ever ever got a girl.
2)since the age of 18, after i lost my virginity to my gf, heres a few stats for ya:

a)ive either approached, hung out or tried to get with AT LEAST 3000 girls (that includes club approaches, messages on myspace sent to chicks, basically any kind of initiation of contact for the reason of hooking up with them). I cannot guess how much i tried, but lets just say ive initiated contact with girls in order to hook up around 3500 times.

i have ended up kissing probly 250 girls......250/3500 - thats less then 10% success. Ive ended up ****ing around 80/2500 - thats like 3% success. Am i a loser cuz i have no succes?? **** NO, DO U KNO WHY??? CUZ I ACTUALLY TRIED!!!

the more u try, the more u get laid!! no one cares how much u get rejected, each and every rejection leads to the door being open to success!!

i dont care how u meet girls, just GO MEET THEM....meet 100 girls, ull end up ****ING several at the very least.

SItting there and approaching 10 girls in 1 year wont get u laid so STOP DOIN THAT SHYT

TRY TRY TRY TRY TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, THE MORE U TRY, THE MORE U GET

ITS A GODDAMN NUMBERS GAME!!!!

understood??

Im tired of the shyt on sosuave, reading about guys and their failures with girls........things such as "oh, i went on a date last week, and we did not kiss close, but its ok, i'll call her in 3 days and see if we have another date a week from now".........WHAT THE ****??? I dont want to see that!!!

what i WANT TO SEE is the following:

"I went on a date with this girl 3 days ago, and she did not wanna kiss me, but its all good because I had 2 dates since then where i made out with 1 of the girls, and I went to a party last nite, danced with some girls, and got a couple numbers, so im gonna call them up and set up a couple of dates this weekend"

you see the difference??? instead of focusing on ONE girl in a week, you should be busting game on like 10-20.......doing this will really help u be able to sort through who is interested and who is not, and you will be getting ***** in no time, YOU JUST HAVE TO GET OUT THERE AND PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE



also, the more u try, the more u LEARN.........if you approach 100 girls and for some reason u have problems, you will be able to learn from your own observations as to what is not working for you, and it will help u find what IS working.

for instance, if 20/100 girls laugh in your face and tell you that you are too skinny for them, then GUESS WHAT???? time to go hit the gym and get some serious muscle - girls will let you know what the problem is

if shes attracted to you, but then you are boring, you will FEEL the lapses in conversation, and u will then know that u gotta go work on your conversation skills

ect ect ect
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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real said:
you will be able to learn from your own observations as to what is not working for you, and it will help u find what IS working. .... laugh in your face and tell you that you are too skinny for them
I actually find this to be a problem, no feedback at all on why they reject you. I can't say any women has given me an indication why they don't want a second date/etc.

If they did say "well that was fun but you are too boring/skinny/fat/bald/rich/etc for me" that would be great, cos over time you could figure out whats wrong.

But I found after a string on non-starters I still had no real idea what was going wrong.
 

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I'll paraphrase this post for those that can't be bothered reading it:

"I've had sex with more girls than you, and I'm going to tell you this in the guise of useful advice, even though everyone's heard it before anyway."

This is completely unneccessary and probably untrue anyway. Skip, please stop, douchebag.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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