"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You WONT succeed unless you FAIL

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starting at the age of 17, i got my first kiss (gf), b4 i was weird ugly and never ever ever got a girl.
2)since the age of 18, after i lost my virginity to my gf, heres a few stats for ya:

a)ive either approached, hung out or tried to get with AT LEAST 3000 girls (that includes club approaches, messages on myspace sent to chicks, basically any kind of initiation of contact for the reason of hooking up with them). I cannot guess how much i tried, but lets just say ive initiated contact with girls in order to hook up around 3500 times.

i have ended up kissing probly 250 girls......250/3500 - thats less then 10% success. Ive ended up ****ing around 80/2500 - thats like 3% success. Am i a loser cuz i have no succes?? **** NO, DO U KNO WHY??? CUZ I ACTUALLY TRIED!!!

the more u try, the more u get laid!! no one cares how much u get rejected, each and every rejection leads to the door being open to success!!

i dont care how u meet girls, just GO MEET THEM....meet 100 girls, ull end up ****ING several at the very least.

SItting there and approaching 10 girls in 1 year wont get u laid so STOP DOIN THAT SHYT

TRY TRY TRY TRY TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, THE MORE U TRY, THE MORE U GET

ITS A GODDAMN NUMBERS GAME!!!!

understood??

Im tired of the shyt on sosuave, reading about guys and their failures with girls........things such as "oh, i went on a date last week, and we did not kiss close, but its ok, i'll call her in 3 days and see if we have another date a week from now".........WHAT THE ****??? I dont want to see that!!!

what i WANT TO SEE is the following:

"I went on a date with this girl 3 days ago, and she did not wanna kiss me, but its all good because I had 2 dates since then where i made out with 1 of the girls, and I went to a party last nite, danced with some girls, and got a couple numbers, so im gonna call them up and set up a couple of dates this weekend"

you see the difference??? instead of focusing on ONE girl in a week, you should be busting game on like 10-20.......doing this will really help u be able to sort through who is interested and who is not, and you will be getting ***** in no time, YOU JUST HAVE TO GET OUT THERE AND PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE



also, the more u try, the more u LEARN.........if you approach 100 girls and for some reason u have problems, you will be able to learn from your own observations as to what is not working for you, and it will help u find what IS working.

for instance, if 20/100 girls laugh in your face and tell you that you are too skinny for them, then GUESS WHAT???? time to go hit the gym and get some serious muscle - girls will let you know what the problem is

if shes attracted to you, but then you are boring, you will FEEL the lapses in conversation, and u will then know that u gotta go work on your conversation skills

ect ect ect
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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real said:
you will be able to learn from your own observations as to what is not working for you, and it will help u find what IS working. .... laugh in your face and tell you that you are too skinny for them
I actually find this to be a problem, no feedback at all on why they reject you. I can't say any women has given me an indication why they don't want a second date/etc.

If they did say "well that was fun but you are too boring/skinny/fat/bald/rich/etc for me" that would be great, cos over time you could figure out whats wrong.

But I found after a string on non-starters I still had no real idea what was going wrong.
 

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I'll paraphrase this post for those that can't be bothered reading it:

"I've had sex with more girls than you, and I'm going to tell you this in the guise of useful advice, even though everyone's heard it before anyway."

This is completely unneccessary and probably untrue anyway. Skip, please stop, douchebag.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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