Pumax
Don Juan
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Being happier often means letting go of that constant sexual edge and just being open and friendly.
I know that won’t sit well with the seducer types, the classical "sosuaver", but this isn’t new.
If your goal is to constantly attract women, you’ll probably deal with more loneliness.
If your goal is a happier life, you may be less “desired,” but more fulfilled.
You have your own POV on the subject, but I see it clearly in two friends.
One is handsome, a natural seducer, great with women, but he’s mostly on his own and he's not happy. He has not many friends since the energy He have will actually make others respect him, but not want to be friends with.
The other isn’t a monk, just genuinely kind and open. He has lots of friends, gives without expecting much back, and doesn’t worry about respect or status. Women may feel more sexual pull toward the first guy, but the second has real connection, love, and peace.
His actual life it's so happy and different from the first one. (He isn't a nice guy, but just genuinely in that frame)
So now you're wondering, which of the two makes a better "lover"? Of course first one.
Which of the two have greater chance with women to be in a "lover" frame? First one.
Which of the two have greater chance to live a happier, fullfilling life? Second one.
I know that saying this in a seduction forum it's a no-sense, but I also think that this is the type of things you should hear.
Focus on the right things will make your life better.
So if you have to chose between being sexy but unhappy and being friendzoned but genuinely happy,what would you chose?
I know that won’t sit well with the seducer types, the classical "sosuaver", but this isn’t new.
If your goal is to constantly attract women, you’ll probably deal with more loneliness.
If your goal is a happier life, you may be less “desired,” but more fulfilled.
You have your own POV on the subject, but I see it clearly in two friends.
One is handsome, a natural seducer, great with women, but he’s mostly on his own and he's not happy. He has not many friends since the energy He have will actually make others respect him, but not want to be friends with.
The other isn’t a monk, just genuinely kind and open. He has lots of friends, gives without expecting much back, and doesn’t worry about respect or status. Women may feel more sexual pull toward the first guy, but the second has real connection, love, and peace.
His actual life it's so happy and different from the first one. (He isn't a nice guy, but just genuinely in that frame)
So now you're wondering, which of the two makes a better "lover"? Of course first one.
Which of the two have greater chance with women to be in a "lover" frame? First one.
Which of the two have greater chance to live a happier, fullfilling life? Second one.
I know that saying this in a seduction forum it's a no-sense, but I also think that this is the type of things you should hear.
Focus on the right things will make your life better.
So if you have to chose between being sexy but unhappy and being friendzoned but genuinely happy,what would you chose?
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